How can I tell if I am or not?

First off hun, you're not alone. Almost every girl has gone through a stage in junior high, high school or college where they've done something with, or thought about doing something with another girl. Girls are a lot different with guys in the fact that girls get a lot closer to each other then guys do. When girls talk to each other, they are inches away from each others face, while guys keep their distance. Girls also are a lot more emotionally attached with each other then guys. They hug each other more often, and do a lot more touching then guys do. They will also swap clothes, change in front of each other, sleep in the same bed, or even shower together. They just have a lot stronger and closer bond with each other. Also girls just naturally have cute bodies. So to be honest, you are not different by thinking a girl is cute, or wanting to do something with one or more. It doesn't make you gay, it doesn't make you bi, it just makes you normal. Many girls do some experimenting when they're young. One thing leads to another, and it just happens. But you're normal hun. Don't worry about it.

Okay think about it this way sweet heart. "Emotionally drawn to guys- Physically drawn to girls." A relationship isn't about the sex. By the time you're 60 you won't be able to do that anymore so you need a soul mate that's going to give you satisfaction emotionally.