Do you feel guilty if you didn't make your partner orgasm ?

for me I always make my man come. when sex isn't enough them I give him a bj after it even if it takes a little longer. and so does he, when I didn't come during sex he goes down on me.

and honestly I don't have to come all the time I have sex. just to feel my partner close to me (and inside me) gives me pleasures me.

Well, this depends on the situation. with my significant other, yes.

But awhile back, before I was with this significant other, when I had a different boyfriend. he and I were having sex and after I had gotten off, he started complaining that he "couldn't feel anything with a condom on" and about how much he hated a condom. I told him no sex without a condom, sorry. he kept whining but eventually got up and put on his pants and said "fine." and pouted all night. it was absolute bs that he couldn't feel things without a condom because we'd always used condoms before and he always did just fine with them, and had he not gave an attitude about it, I would've gone down on him, or something, but in this case, I don't feel bad about just rolling over and falling asleep.

yes because it just means you aren't going that extra mile for them. and that you don't feel it so when you are done they should be too.

Why have no guys answered this? Is it not more appropriate for them? lol! Anyway It is a rare occasion for this to happen to me but I don't feel guilty so long as I've put the work in. if it isn't gonna happen then it isn't gonna happen! I suppose I feel disappointed if he doesn't but I don't take it personally-I've found the best thing to do it take a nap or get him something to eat and just try again!

I think both should come. Sometimes I rather he come before me. Sure I'm horny and frustrated, but I actually feel better when he's come. then he can just finger f*** me. ;)

sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. it really depends on my mood. mind you he used to complain about he'd only get off once and I more than three times, in which case I feel pretty guilty but it's not my fault I have a vagina and he has a penis. but at any rate, in this case I made sure to make that one time feel really good for him so that I wouldn't feel too guilty for getting off more than once. or I wait about an hour then try to get him off again and again. :)

i don't feel guilty I feel bad as if I can't satisfy my guy and he might get bored if I cant

Yeah a bit, I'd feel really bad if he had made the effort to make me orgasm and I hadn't returned the favor somehow.

I'm a girl so we are the ones that usually don't cum. but my partner is very good at making sure I do. lol. but I mean if my partner wouldn't cum I would feel bad, because I mean its gonna suck not getting yours

Yes, I feel guilty, and I have to offer to satisfy her some other way.
If she's a casual encounter, I wouldn't care so much, as long as I feel my performance was up to standards and according to what she communicated that she wanted. I often feel I have to ask permission to climax, because I'm not going to be able to continue after, or it's going to suck really bad for me, and I prefer they cum during intercourse rather than finishing her after I'm done.
For casual encounters it's harder for me to make the girls orgasm too, in addition to me not caring as much.