Why in all sex surveys and movies is it that men are never focused on? It just puzzles me that you even read in fiction "she moaned and screamed his name and whimpered in the ecstasy" wtf?
Why is it never about men panting? That's so hot! Heavy breathing turns me on more than anything and I was wondering if guys just bump and grind and let the women be vocal because they feel stupid?
For God's sake - don't! It's not about grunting like a pig or moaning so loud you wake the neighbors but erratic sexy breathing - does it for me every time!
The only time I make noise is when I'm trying to hold back from cumming and then when it is finally released I have one happy smile on my face with a big sigh of relief. So far I can keep myself from cumming for 37 minutes without a condom and constant penetration. After my release the sheets are covered with my sweat mostly. I have found that by doing some slow combinations of penetration mixed in with a few hardcore bursts, I am able to last longer during intercourse. The concentration is immensely difficult but in the end, well worth it.
well if that's what your into, then tomorrow come over to my place. we can go jogging together. I'm chubby and out of shape, and jogging will have me breathing heavy in no time. -be safe- make good choices-j. p.s. your not alone here. I had a girlfriend once who complained because I didn't have a facial expression that indicated I was getting my rocks off. So I spent a few hours looking at myself in the mirror trying to create my own personal "oh god, I'm gonna cum facial expression" which is not easy to do. I'd like to see jim carey's attempt at this. so don't worry. guys don't really pant because we are not a panting type of animal. and we are usually too busy to focus on that stuff. but if it's what you like.tell your man.and you will have a panting fool in your bed in no time - j
I think a lot of men are afraid to express themselves and think they will feel foolish. For me I was pretty much always quite because I either had parents around somewhere or my own kids and we had to keep it quite.
I have since learned that toning helps to move energy which is really what sex is all about. Making noise not only lets your partner know you are enjoying yourself, but increases the intensity of the orgasms.
I feel it has a lot to do with orgasms and sensations. It is not to say guys don't feel things, but it is not to the extent of women. I know me personally will breathe heavy and occasionally make noises, but most of my reaction and volume of loudness increases at orgasm. So for a woman who has multiple orgasms in a single session, she would be more inclined to moan or scream as she nears or experiences a number of orgasms.
I definitely make some noise, but not wild screams or anything. Mostly soft moaning, heavy breathing, and uncontrollable grunts! When I come I like to tell her over and over how FRIKIN' good it feels followed by a few ughs while I'm coming! Sweaty stuff!
I like it when she moans softly and I can tell she's really into it - just like you describe it.
i practice tantra, and know that proper breathing and sounds can highten and even lead to orgasms alone if done properly. but for the moaning and screaming part, I personally don't moan that "loud" and I am definitely enjoying myself. I have also been with women who scream and yell in kind of annoying ways and have destroyed the mood. I hope this helped. take care
Sometimes I don't make any noises because I'm concentrating on having sex. Every now and then I don't do any work and enjoy the show, that's when you can hear me make noises. =)
Concentrating on having sex? Isn't breathing and panting part of sex? Or is it just about the sensation for men? I am puzzled by the male brain - ahhhhh venus and mars! And if you need to concentrate on sex darling you're doing it with the wrong woman - only joking;) x - 3 months ago
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Whenever I have sex, I make sure the woman "finishes" first, then it's my turn. =) I concentrate on making her the happiest woman on earth haha. - 3 months ago
i often wondered this myself mind you my ex did make grunts a few times. it got really hot in the room and I was going down on him. it was such a turn on to see him biting the sheets and grabbing on to the bed just as he took a load off in my mouth. lol
Some guys do make noise, some don't. Just like some girls make noise, and some don't. I've been told I'm more on the quiet side, I breathe heavy, say "mmm" and make quiet sounds like that, my significant other does the same. I've been with some guys who have made more noise than I have, and I've been with some who were practically silent.
Absolutely - and doesn't that turn you on all the more? Lying there like a rag or grinding away with no hint of a breath? Not so sexy. Someone rapidly breathing in your ear, and sighing your name - very sexy! It's nice to hear a girl's POV that agrees - thanks hun x - 3 months ago
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Oh hell yeah especially when he is like "mmmmmm" I know I'm doing something good. lol - 3 months ago
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