My husband and I have been married for 2 years and the other night during foreplay, he stuck a finger in me then pulled it out and sucked on it and described to me how good it tasted. He then slid his finger back into me and asked if I wanted a taste. I replied to him yes, as a turn on to him. I sucked my juices off his finger then he started making comments on how he would really like to see me eat out another girl. I told him if it happened he wouldn't be allowed to touch her. He says he's ok with that he just wants to see me do it. I've always been a little curios about having another woman but never followed through. Should I ask another woman to join us for the possible pleasure for both of us or just delay it enough and maybe he'll forget about it?
At first it's good to see if he'll forget it . . But if not, then you need to set some ground rules before you bring someone else in . Plus, remember that it can get addicting for the guy .
You should try it without your husband there first just to see if you're into it, and if you aren't, then you don't have the pressure of your husband watching you, and you never do it again.
But be careful, if you ask one of your friends about this and they take it the wrong way (you being curious, and them being either really into you or really against you) they might make a move on you, or start spreading rumors or something like that.
And, make this about what you want and not what he wants and you might like it a lot more, or be able to give up on it a lot easier because nothing is expected... And unless you speak your mind he may expect it.
The answer lies within yourself...don't do anything just for your mate....if you are really interested in exploring this aspect, maybe you should try a few things with a girl friend alone until you are comfortable to do it in front of your husband. The first time you may not like if or freak out and you just may not want to be that exposed to your partner.....Bottom line....do what is right for you.
I agree - if you're wanting to check out a chick, doing it alone with her first might satisfy your curiosity without jeopardizing your relationship w/your hubby - unless he is jealous and considers you being with another chick as committing adultery! Either way, if you introduce her into your bedroom, you're both committing adultery. If you sleep with her on the side, you're still committing adultery, but he's not. So, you can choose which of the two you are most interested in or neither). - 6 months ago
Go for it, if you are curious, and he wants to see it, then it's good for both of you. Fantasies usually live themselves out either way, why not make it under circumstances where you both can enjoy it.
I think it depends on whether it's something you really want to do or not. If not, I would be honest with him and let him know that you really don't want to. Personally, I have always thought that introducing someone into a marriage relationship normally spells trouble for the marriage in the future. I have very old-fashioned values when it comes to marriage - I believe the people ought to love each other and be committed to one another only in a marriage. However, if you think you would enjoy it, don't let my old-fashioned moral values stand in your way! (lol)
Hahahahah. well first I think that's funny that he wants that. and I love how people talk about this on here. but uhhh if you want to eat out another girl go ahead and make your boyfriend proud. but he will probably end up touching her.
I am also married so I know where you're coming from. If you bring another woman into your bed you have to really, and I mean really trust her. My husband and I discussed it a few years ago and I was actually considering it. At the time my best friend revealed to me that she had a crush on me. I indulged in one night with her and that was it. My curiosity was satisfied and I realized that the only person I want in my bed is my husband. He and I never did have that threesome and he has never even asked about it again. Just be sure that is really what you want to do because once you open that door you can never close it again. It will forever be a part of your relationship whether you want it to or not.
FIREandSOUL
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
I actually got a very similar request from my guy. we ended up following through and I brought my best friend into the bedroom with us. he didn't touch her and he focused on me but he appreciated seeing us pleasing each other.
Then after another year and a half of dating him I found out he started cheating on me with her after we had "3-wayed." I suppose he felt like it was ok since I allowed it once. I highly suggest you don't do it, but if you do, make sure your guy is honest with you.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
