What did his mom mean?

I'm wondering what the father did! Normally if a father walked into his son's room and found him making out, the dad would be so proud! Yep, believe it. Watch Transformers the Movie. There was a scene where the boy was hiding a girl. When she popped out(obviously fully clothed), the parents were so nice and proud of their geeky son. Had it been the other way.MURDER! Typical human society.

I would suggest to keep this under a very low profile. I enjoy the fact that you embracing sex but as Jessica32 said, this could have lead to a lot of serious problems such as pregnancy and the like. In addition, if the parents are highly religious, throw in the virginity factor. Yep, you just tainted the 'purity' of their darling little boy before marriage. Don't try to understand it, just accept it as strange.

Well hmmm I'd say that some very bad things could happen to HIM. Since you're under 16 and he's older, he's committed statutory rape even if it was consensual. That's a very serious crime. Other than that I don't know what you mean by "that he was very rough on me". I don't know what his mom meant by that statement other than maybe your parents told his parents what you guys were up to and now your parents know too, which is a good thing. I just don't really understand why young girls are so free to be having sex so much before they're even 16 as if there was nothing else to do to have fun. Gosh, I like sex, but man there's a ton of things to do as a couple that are fun and entertaining and bring closeness to our relationship besides doing sexual stuff. . actually much better than doing sexual stuff. Maybe his mom has some things in her mind she wants to do to make it known what happened last night to prevent that from happening again because she wants to keep her son out of big trouble.

He is mom's little baby, and you (in her eyes not mine) are the dirty little whore corrupting him. She is only looking out for his well being, and doesn't want to have grand kids before she is suppose to. You have got to talk with her and apologize for your actions that night and that you feel real bad about disrespecting their house. I agree with everyone else earlier that you are quite young to be full speed ahead in sex. Please do take care of yourself and always use a condom. Also if you choose to continue in sex, get on some sort of birth control.

trying to scare you away / she was in the heat of the moment

She was pissed. If that was me walking in my my boys or daughter I would probly have went over board and said something like that too. That's not something a parent wants to see at stuff a young age, she can't do anything to you he is only then you are for one so he would get in trouble. She could have also meant bad things will happen meaning you could get pregnant. I'm sure she didn't mean it to scare you though. I think she just wants you to understand what would happen or could happen.

You are both young and what she said is what she means, SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU TO SEE HER SON!

How can you even wonder what does she mean? Your boyfriends mother explicitly demanded that you can't see her son again & your questioning what she means by that? You obviously need to just accept "no" for no. There's no hidden meaning. She just DOESN'T WANT YOU TO SEE HIM. By saying this- she's expressing that she doesn't want you in her son's life. Instead of questioning her authority you should be ashamed. Of both yourself and your actions. I mean, its come to the point where you have been purposely taken out of someone's life. That's pretty drastic. You should feel embarrassed and just being honest, like crap. You just stated that you lied to your parents and your boyfriends parents, you spent the night at his house unwelcomed by his parents- who own the house (which is a whole different topic you should be ashamed of), you had sex with him even though you knew it would upset his parents, you completely dismissed that she asked you to go home, and now your questioning not only her authority but her as a person. Specifically her ability to make good judgments. Which shows you think you're better. Throughout this whole situation you only thought of your own feelings. Try to see things from her point of view. You would look well, like a slut. Also disrespectful, dishonest, judgmental, and defiant. Also, I hope your parents know all this.

I have a 14 year old daughter, and let me tell you if I found her having sex with a guy in my house I would go nuts. I'd probably call his parents and tell them and she'd be grounded so long. Not to mention what her dad would do. Sex is not a game and you obviously think it is. You should watch the Maury Show and see all the young girls on there that have had sex, got pregnant and now they have no idea who the father is and if they do the guy wants nothing to do with her or the baby. Not to mention the diseases you can catch.

Ok, this isn't what you asked for,and I'm not trying to talk down at you but for future reference don't have sex until you know all the facts,the dangers and have adequate protection. Do you want to get pregnant?

She could tell your parents and many other people, but you can't get in legal trouble. I'm not sure if he could get in legal trouble, since he is 17 and the legal age most places is 18. However, if he CAN get in trouble, I doubt she would tell anybody.