Can what you say during sex ruin the whole experience? I was being ''intimate'' with an old friend and right in the middle he told me that I had lost him ( In the past he liked me, I still care for him) it was almost a kill joy type of situation. It made me wonder if we had done the right thing by sleeping together. I then started wondering how many girls he was sleeping with so . . I asked him and he told me not to ruin the moment. Yea I can see how that might ruin it. Don't get me wrong it was still AMAZING , but there were plenty add libs.
if you were in a relationship together I could see how it would ruin it, but if its just casual sex, guys like to keep their emotions out of it. I think he might have been just reassuring you that it was just sex, and not something more. the only way really to ruin it outside a relationship is by saying "happy birthday grandma"
oh sure I remember when I was having sex with this fella who was lovely and so sweet but he always talked about himself and never asked me about me that often when we were around each other and to be honest I preferred it that way but when we had sex in the middle of it he start asking me stuff about me and getting into a conversation I just thought it was so funny like talk about timing so it ruined it for me anyhow
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