Why do some people think its ok?

Its a matter of who likes what? I don't mind gay people or bi or w/e just don't bother me, with your sexuality. like if I'm cute or whatever, I don't want a gay guy trying to bag. Cause its happened before and it was disturbing.

well why do people like blue or red,its the same question,its a matter of taste and interest,people have different desires and predispositions,one can't blame them for what they take satisfaction in

As long as your happy its all good. I Try to think of it like this. If we lived in a world where you're only supposed to be attracted to the same sex, and you still liked the opposite, what would you do?

I for one believe that maximizing one's personal and social happiness is the basis of life (this is all within reasonable limits, of course). So if being gay or bi makes you happy, then so be it.

Because it is. Now please tell me, why do you think it is ok to tell other people how to behave in their private lives?

Of course it's ok.

I am a little surprised that there is someone out there who has questions about it.

It is legal and psychologically sound.

The only people who seem to have a problem with it are people who are convinced that what they want to believe about the universe has some place in the conversation about what other people do with their own bodies.

If gay sex bothers you, stop having it. Otherwise, come to terms that the world doesn't share your religious beliefs and isn't going to take your unreasonable position seriously.

Your god has no place in this country's legislation or on this forum.


Don't cite God as a reliable resource. You don't even know if he/she/it exists.

"Faith" is not valid proof.

it is ok.

Why do you think it's ok to make people feel bad about who they are?
That is what your doing.

P.S.: Some people don't care what Jesus or the Bible says. I'm one of them, I do date men. Please don't feel sorry for me. Feel sorry for yourself that you actually limit yourself to a book.

yeah I grew up Catholic. Kissed my first boy at church camp. It was awesome.

People like you are part of the reason why people I know have killed themselves. Feel good.

I know you've gotten more than enough response on this but let me add one more, ok? You asked "why do some people think it's ok? . not is it ok or not or is it right or wrong. I'd say some people think it's ok because they're not educated on the subject or think any kind of relationship between people is ok. But the fact of the matter is that most people that are gay, bi or lesbian were born with orientation. Maybe being bi is a stage that girls go through a lot also. I personally know at least 8 gay men. They know that I am totally straight and most of them know that I know they are gay. All 8 guys happen to be exceptional men in the way the act, in their work and in their contacts with other people and are fun to be with. They're well educated and some have tried to have normal relationships with women and some of the women were even willing to go with them knowing they were gay. That's how nice of guys they are. I know these men didn't choose to be this way. They just have never responded to women. Oh they have really nice women as friends but they just don't respond sexually to them. They've tried but just no chemistry. I really do feel sorry for some of these guys. Two are the head of outstanding church music programs, one is moving up the bank ladder, one is going to medical school, one is a pharmaceutical salesman, and two are just struggling to make a living like most everyone else. well dressed and decent. None seem to prey on other guys. Some are in live together arrangements and some live alone. . all in nice houses. None wishes they could get married b t envy married couples. I don't think most people think being gay, bi or a lesbian is totally right but it's their outward actions that are the most important. Jesus said, "don't judge lest you be judged." We have to accept our fellow men the best we can and treat them the same as everyone else. I guess in answer to your question, that's probably why some people think it's ok. We're all born with some kind of baggage to handle in this life the best we can. To us it appears to not have been distributed equally. But you can be sure it is. This is theirs. We need to accept what we can not change.

Well,

Here is my take on it.

There isn't anything wrong about being gay/bi/lesbian. I just don't agree they should flaunt it and make it a point to show the whole world they are what they are.

Its just something different, I don't know the reasons, maybe some neurochemical differences in the brain. I just don't know.

But what I do know, It isn't "normal". Not that it is a bad thing. Simply that it isn't the norm. Just like someone blind isn't normal, someone deaf, someone missing a leg or arm. Humans were meant to see, hear, have two arms and have two legs.

Just like humans were meant to be hetero sexual in order to "replicate"

I don't think it's okay at all
but can't do nothing about it
too bad that you gotta live with that fact