Gay or curious?

Theres nothing wrong with trying it. If you're curious why not?

I am, quite honestly, shocked at how harshly my fellow females are responding to this. I'd say you're curious, because you seem more interested in how it feels than actually desiring that feeling over being with women. If you end up enjoying it and wanting it more, but still wanting to be with girls, you might be bisexual, or heteroflexible, or homoflexible, depending on your preference. And if the whole experience just turns off your attraction to girls entirely...well, then I'd say you're probably gay.

Sexuality is a lot more complex than most people think. It's not just gay or straight. It's not a binary, it's a spectrum. A rainbow, you might say. ;) But just because you think you might want to experiment with other men, it doesn't necessarily mean that you're gay or bisexual. Good luck!

You have gay/bi-curious tendencies. It doesn't matter if it's for one night or a whole weekend. If you're attracted to men and/or want to be sexual with another man you're gay.

I think you are curious myself. Come on girls, the bottom of the page it was just one night if it was everyday then I would say yes you're gay.

I think your are a homosexual but your just don't know it yet. I doubt a guy that is attracted to females would ever want to experience that. Mainly the fact that you want to give a headjob is the most gay part. I think you should do it because once you've done it, you will either come to terms that you are gay or realise it was just a phase and get over it, but until you do, you will always wonder so just do it.

Yeah. That's not normal! I would say you are a little soft!

I don't know about the whole ass part though it sounds sick and wrong. But if you are curious try it. You might or might not like it.
But you will never know unless you find out.

Do you find women attractive at all? If so it's just a phase but don't do it. I'm a chick, it hurts I swear and leave the blow jobs to a Girl- Professional hot Brunettes!

I don't think it would turn you into an all out homosexual if you just want to experience gay sex. I believe you can have a one night stand with a guy and see if you really like the experience. If you decide you enjoyed the experience and you also enjoy being with a woman then you're bisexual. If you didn't like the experience with the guy then you know that you are straight. I believe once you've had the experience then you'll be able to judge. Until then you'll always have the curiosity of what that experience is like.

At this point you are just curious. IMO You are not gay or Bi until the act has been performed.

I to am curious as well and would like to experience this for myself, less the anal part. I am more curious about the oral parts, and wonder whats it like. I have not found a guy that I am willing to even talk about this let alone try it though. Any takers?

I have the exact same thoughts. I have had them for some time. I told my gf and she told me that I have bi-tendencies. Never heard that term until then. I will say that was two years ago and we have never spoken of it again. I think about sexual acts with men almost every day....

I have to admit, I've been curious myself, but I have to say that I've never considered actually trying it as of yet. But I'm fairly positive that just because I've thought of it as a curiosity doesn't mean I'm bi. I don't think you're a full blown bi, either, because you don't want that on a regular basis. And the way you phrased it seemed to me like someone who was curious how it felt as opposed to being sexually attracted to the man.

I have thought for a long time that there is more of a spectrum than any sort of polarity to the whole homosexuality issue. Some people are more gay than others, and some are more straight, but just because you've had thoughts about the same gender doesn't mean you're bi or homosexual. It just means that you're closer to that side than others, if that makes any sense.

Look, you're definitely BI-curious. That's OK. Experiment if you want, be safe. It is normal to experiment. I am astonished at the lack of sensitivity from the female respondents.

If you find that you're gay, or bisexual then that's who you are and you'll need to accept it. If not, at least now you know.