Nice eyes, a cute smile and a proportionate body, carries herself confidently and has some spark about her - vicariousness I think is the correct word.
I like everything. Women are the most extraordinary beings and each one is different. Ultimately, it is who they are that is the most important. A woman is going to change size, shape, and everything else over time, but her intelligence and personality will remain the same. The beauty of who that person is definitely counts most.
For me, it's the whole package. Not too much or too little of anything in the shape department. She has some smarts and isn't dependent on others to get through small everyday things. Not much rattles her. She's adventuresome with a sense of humor. She has a great smile but can speak volumes just with her eyes.
The first thing I notice is the complete girl as a whole. Like how is your body proportioned. I'm drawn to face first off and does she easily smile and look at me or people like she knows what's going on. Like she's on the ball. Some girls look like they're in a daze or half asleep or with a "I don't care" attitude on their faces. I'm drawn to her hair too of course. I love long hair and I love long hair in a ponytail. lol! But all this only takes me like 5 - 10 seconds. After that it's the combination of her boobs, tummy and butt. The perfect combination to me would be like: 34 boobs, 26 waist, and 36 butt. lol! I'm not attracted to skinny girls. This takes the next 5 - 10 seconds. If she's wearing a skirt or shorts, well thennnn I noticed her legs in the 5 seconds along with the rest of her bod. lol. My user name is "i lovelegs" for a reason. haha! I can really go bananas seeing a girl with shapely legs in a short jean skirt. :-) Not micro because a mini will do just fine. lol! But after the bod checking out thing, I really am interested in her personality. In a way, her face and personality means so much to me because that makes a person. actually makes the rest of her look even better. Try looking at a girl you think doesn't have a knock out bod, but she's very pretty and has an awesome personality. well gosh, her bod suddenly doesn't look all that bad. Or look at a girl that you think is a knockout and as soon as you start talking to her you find out she's an air brain. It's weird how her bod doesn't seem that important anymore unless all you have on your mind is sex. I also notice if she talks all the time or is a good listener because I prefer the later.
Attitude is number one - by far. Sincere, easy going, fun, smart, adaptable.
This can not be overrated enough. Any girl with attractive physical qualities is NOTHING without a great personality to go with it.girls, are you listening! Develop an authentic personality FIRST!
Distant second place features in order for me are: eyes (face), hair, figure. Boobs of any size are ok with me as long as they're not fake! I don't think fat is attractive. If she has a nice figure then her butt is attractive by default.
I would much rather hang out with easy going fun girls who are less attractive than pretty girls who are not nice.
You should make a roll model out of yourself. - 2 months ago
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Thank you! I believe everyone eventually comes to realize this. Look at older people. I want to be old and respected as a person. We all get wrinkled eventually and our looks are temporary. Beauty is in the eye of the heart. - 2 months ago
for a physical feature I must say. well it differs from girl to girl. usually their eyes for me, gets me everytime, they just say so much about a person, I feel like I can get lo know them by looking in their eyes rather then their breasts or butt.
Superficially or wholesomely? Superficially I'd say the face. (Though I don't want to speak for every guy out there, I just imagine a guy would rather date a girl with a super hot and attractive face and okay breasts than a girl with a really unattractive face and super breasts).
Wholesomely, it really depends on the guy, I think.
It appears people have ignored what the question originally was. She asked for a generalization of what guys like the most, not personal opinions, haha. - 2 months ago