What can I do to make it easier?

Based on what you said, if I were you I'd pass that one up! Why do you want anal sex so bad when most women get no pleasure from that and most men cum way to quickly because of the tightness? What's wrong with all the other sexual things you can do together? Why not try improving on those. The butt hole definitely wasn't made for doing that.

If you want to have anal sex and have never tried it or are having a hard time getting there you can do a number of things. I have seen pictures and talked with people who have put rather large things up their anus, so I know it can be done. It will probably be a little uncomfortable at first and you may never like it. If that is the case then don’t get too hung up about it. Maybe you can use other things than a penis like maybe a finger. If you like that then maybe you can gradually move to larger objects. Objects always seem larger than they appear when it comes to the anus for me even my wife’s pinky finger.

First, make sure you have a really good lube and something that is silicon based. Water based lubricants absorb quickly. Next, massage the muscles around the anus. To me it helps relax it. As someone pointed out in a previous post there are two sphincter muscles that help keep things in until you are ready. The first sphincter muscle is pretty easy to get past; the second wasn’t for me at first.

After a while of massaging gently start to enter the anus with a finger. Go in part way and then come back out and re-lubricate. Slowly you can work it all the way in. For a guy who is receiving the prostate is now accessible which can greatly enhance your orgasm.

Always remember to go slowly until your partner is ready for it. Next, if you are looking to ultimately get something larger in the there try using two fingers. Again, go very slowly and if something starts to hurt back off. You can always try it again another time, but if it hurts too much then your partner will likely not be interested in the future.

If you are working on getting a penis in there then I would gradually work more and more fingers or even smaller to larger dildos until you have one that approximates the size of his penis.

Also, don’t just do it. Women need to be nurtured with foreplay during regular sex usually. This will probably need even more.

Always remember to use a condom on the penis. The rectum is filled with all sorts of bacteria and it can give the guy a UTI. Never go straight from the anus to the vagina, even it they do it in the porn movies, because she can get a UTI from that. Always wash off first. You can even use a anti-bacterial lotion to ensure cleanliness. Just don’t put that inside of her because it will hurt. Just make sure it is washed off as best possible.

Finally, relax and enjoy it if you can. If not then don't do it.

well I think that it hurts so don't do that

I think it feels uncomfortable, and if something embarrassing happens. well he asked for it :D. I'd say try it once because I do know some girls that do like it and I just can't stand it. If it doesn't work because he's to big, it hurts or you don't like it. well at least you tried. but don't make yourself do something you don't want to do.