I've been dating a girl for about a month and a half, we are not official or anything but its pretty much implied without the title of boyfriend or girlfriend.
How do I bring up the subject of me wanting to have sex with her and talk about that since we haven't talked about sex before and she is a virgin.the reason I'm asking is because we're both going separate ways for the summer, and we obviously like each other.thats why I would (although if it didn't happen then that's ok because I don't want to pressure her) like to have sex because we won't see each other much in the summer .
If she's still a virgin at your age, then she's probably not the type of girl to give it up after a month and a half ESPECIALLY if she won't be seeing you much this summer. You say you'd like you like to be her first time? She'll cling to you like crazy and will have a very difficult time being without you for so long.
Instead of guessing or assuming something is implied just ask her if you are boy/girlfriend. Then you can just bring a straight conversation to the matter of sex. Ask her what her thoughts are on sex. You can ask why she is a virgin (probably because she is waiting for the right guy). You can tell her of your desire .If you bring an adult conversation to the matter then you should be able to get straight answers. If you get all weird about it (i.e make the conversation a childish one) then everything gets weird.
probably better to talk about it but not do anything till she gets back give her time to think about it and make a decision. better to wait a bit and pick up later
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Well ma idea of an first date is just have fun and be out there.....is to see an movie nothing romantic like you know comedy and action with romantic in it sometimes...or play some videos games and pop in and dvd at ma or his house and just cuddle or just go out to eat ..i would wear jeans tank top or skirt high heels or it depends the date sometimes can end with an kiss well all the time lol
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When: 3 months ago
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