Me and my partner aren't ready to have sex yet. mainly because of myself. I'm not 100% sure that I'm ready, however, I feel like the time is coming soon. The 2 of us are really into each other, but we're not in a relationship (yet?). Here's his hang up: he claims that if he is the one to take my virginity then I will be attached to him for the rest of my life. How should I react to this? I see his concern, but I'm almost offended. I guess that means he doesn't want me around long?
You will be. And he's not ready for a serious relationship with you that's why he wants to wait. He doesn't want to hurt you and he's being respectful to you. Just wait it out don't rust to lose it let him be ready for a commitment to you before it happens!
You get one chance at this and it is gone. I wish that I would have waited till I was married, but I thought I knew better and knew what I was doing. At the time it didn't seem like such a big deal, but now that I am married I look back and realize what a big deal it really was. It has caused more problems in my marriage than anything else. Once you get married after a while no matter what you will think of the other ones that you had and even if it was bad you will what if it and think about it. That will lead to many problems down the road. At this point no matter how much I want to forget about the other women that I have slept with I will never be able to. I will never be able to give my wife all of me because those other women will always be in my head. There have been many problems because I am ready to do more things more advanced than my wife. Where if we had started out together we could have grown together sexually, instead of her growing and me sitting stagnant, waiting. Once you take that plunge that will become the focus if your relationship with your BF. What do you want to be the focus of your relationships?
girl wait 2 actually be in a relationship. you want someone committed to you. If you lose to him then of course you'll be attached to him. u lost your virginity when you lose your virginity you're gonna remember that person the rest of your life. make sure that you are madly in love furst
Heck, I find that offensive! It'd be best to find someone who knows this is a big thing for you. That this will be as BIG of a thing for HIM at it is for you! :] I'd ask him straight up, "What's THAT supposed to mean?" It's what you think is best hun.
When do you think it's appropriate for a girl to lose her virginity? (answer in the poll)Now post an answer to this: How old do you think a guy should...
View Answers
because me and my ex started dating andi wasnt a virgin and he knew but hated that detail.well i took his virginity and hew was shy about it at first...
View Answers
Eddie Murphy was once quoted as saying that there is no difference between the act of lovemaking and the act of sex. Since then, I have had men say to me, "You know, why are women so hung up on the...
When a relationship starts to become serious, and both people get to know each other pretty well, there's a chance to become too comfortable, or stagnant (or really, however you experience it) within...
(Age:30 to 35)
When: 4 months ago
(Age:Under 18)
When: 4 months ago
Site Links
About GirlsAskGuys
GirlsAskGuys Widgets
Help Us Improve!
