I really don't want to experiment. AT ALL. I haven't been with either sex, I just really don't know, and it's freaking me out. I've even gotten to the point where I don't think I'll ever have sex because I just don't want to know. Any advice in figuring it out? and I know it's up to me, but I really can't decide.
Poor girl.everyone has you panicking. I know what God made you for. He made Woman for man and man for woman. But why are you so worked up about it. Sex shouldn't cause you so much grief. Relationships are supposed to be about finding someone that makes your life happier and better. Start looking for that person. Forget about the sex.it will come later. Until then, just decide on the things that make you happy and work toward those things. Find that person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, and when he is there, the rest will fall into place.
If you haven't been with either then how can you make a decision? You have to try something either way at least kiss someone your attracted to both sexes. That's the only advice anyone can give you really so go out and figure it out!
Why are you worried about this so much already when you're still so young? Consider your sexually as being normal just like other girls. Being normal is liking guys like any other girls, but that doesn't mean you have to be obsessed with them. Hang out with other girls like the other girls do and talk to guys like they're human beings just like you, and go about your business of leaning in school or having a part-time job or having fun at the beach with your friends. Why are you worried what your sexually is right now? You DON'T NEED to be experimenting. You don't need to try sex just to see how it goes with you. Forget about sex until you fall in love with some guy and if you find yourself not liking guys but instead liking girls more. well then you can think about that when that times comes. There's a million things to do besides worrying about sexuality unless you have a reason to. Don't wish to be wild like a lot of young girls are nowadays.
I agree, live life for everything else and you will find what you want. Make friends and travel, if it is suppose to be then you will know deep in your gut. Ha! If all else fails, based on your religion you could become a nun and not even worry about sex. - 3 months ago
What? Why are you trying to complicate things? Who said you had to experiment, where is that rule? What are you basing your questions on? Somewhere sometime someone put these questions in your head and this doubt. Man was made for woman and woman for man, period. What you need is a solid basis for your values. If you are pulling them from a hundred different sources, you won't know what direction to go. Find that basis and go from there. I wish this was a 2 way conversation so I could ask you all the questions that this brings up. Try revising your post and being a little more descriptive and explain your position a little more, and you will get a better response.
You find out you enjoy things if you try, like if you hadn't tried chocolate you wouldn't know you liked it. If you have had a boyfriend and have been attracted to a guy, I would suggest losing it to a guy first, it's a bit easier. But if you feel more inclined towards girls then go for it. Just relax and enjoy.
I'm not sure and I've been wondering for a while. I sometimes feel the need to kiss girls and I don't know why. I get the feeling even if I'm not...
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
'Pickup lines'? I would NOT use a pickup line unless I'm joking around. I've used the one 'I lost my number... Can I have yours' but I couldn't say it with a straight face! Why not just start talking to the dude? Without being annoying and without making him think your stalking him!
How do they typically respond?
They always talk back to me and usually tell me how 'different' I am. Apparently I'm thee only girl whoo takes time to just talk to thee guy without being stalkerish and annoying :P
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