I have been friends with this guy for 3 years we have just gotten past the friend line because in the past one or both of us always had someone else. He is really sweet and smart. He's totally shy in person but when we text this whole other side of him comes out.He wants me to make the moves when we hangout.I'm guessing because he's shy but idk.By me making the moves what will that say about me? I'm not afraid of making them but I don't want to get caught up in a moment and loose his respect and the chance to have him as a real boyfriend since we are just talking right now.We text about different games we are going to play & really its fun but I don't know how much I would go through with What do I do? Should I make the moves or just stay back? Every guys dreams of a freak in the bed but want a lady in the streets I can be both but will me moving first blind him from seeing that? Plz help
Seems like all you can do is tell him you are concerned about what he will think of you afterward. That still leaves you in a position of having to trust that he means what he says. But it always comes down to that anyway. He could say it would be OK if you didn't want to and still not be honest. As far as what you may or may not go through with, you have to play it by ear. Some things may grow on you. You may end up liking it more than he does and coming up with new games of your own. The thing is to keep the freaky part in check so that the games don't take over your life - and one of you ends up not being able to know when it's a game or the real thing. I don't mean no games outside the bedroom. But there has to be a time when the games are off. Otherwise it can mess with your head and the relationship. I hope that makes sense.
I think that if you just go for it and have fun then at least you'll have fun with it and if its meant for you guys to be more then FWB then it will happen
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