I've recently been seeing this new girl who I really like a lot but we've been having problems lately because I just have no sex drive whatsoever.
I don't know why though, because before I could class myself as one of the most horniest people out there. It was madness then, but now I just don't have anything.
I'm wandering whether it actually is psychological (down to stress and such) or there is actually a problem with me. I am only 18 years old and I'm sure this shouldn't be happening at my age. I don't see why it would be stress. Although I am generally quite stressed out about college, work and such, I feel as though it doesn't affect me because I'm looking through it all, all the time! Just seeing what comes at the end makes me happy and overcome the stress effects.
The thing is, I can masturbate okay sometimes, but if I was going to get into sex, I would get an erection for maybe a couple of minutes, and then bam it's gone! And what happens? The girl gets upset.
Since you can masturbate successfully, what I wonder is are you sure you're as sexually attracted to her as you have been to other girls you've been with?
It could be the case, but I feel the same to everyone. I used to be able to walk down the street and be turned on just by seeing a nice girl, but that's just not the case anymore. - 4 months ago
If your stressed out now, I see an anxiety attack in your future.
I'm assuming you're a virgin and you're putting the pussy on a pedestal.
Look, don't worry about pleasuring her or how much you will suck the first time. Man up, stick it in, be happy.
Seriously, you have the opportunity of sex and not taking advantage of it and then blaming it on BS reasons like stress from college and work while you still live at home with mommy.
It's 100% psychological and you need to get in the right mind frame.
Why would a womens sex drive be so low to the point you probably have sex a few times a month?I have been in a relationship for a while with my...
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When: 4 months ago
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