How do you prepare to have anal-sex?

The first thing you must do is prepare ahead of time by drinking lots of fluids, if you are certain you will indeed have anal sex that day or the next. The less solid foods in your body, the easier to flush later that day with an enema. Use the extra large bottles, sure they cost more but better than the smaller bottles. Sometimes, vacate the anus with two bottles on a one or two hour interval but never use more than three. The first flushing is the actual liquid, than about one hour later use the same bottle but filled with warm soapy water.

Once this is done, wait for a few hours before you get naughty. You must mentally prepare yourself for anal sex. If you are all tense and apprehensive then the penetration will hurt big time. Starting off with a finger will help. But use lots of lube. Gels are the best such as KY Jelly, the sex lubes are a bit messier but then again, sex is supposed to be icky anyway.

The thing about anal sex is that sometimes no matter how much prep work you do, you body just will not allow it. You may have too much booboo inside your bowels no matter what you do. In that case, just stop and wait for another day.

Don't have anal sex with a guy the first time if he's hung like a horse, this will make your butt raw and sore for hours. IF you want to do it with a guy that big anyway, use more lube and keep the amount of time to under 20 minutes or so.

Enjoy, and don't wait too long. Virginity is overrated. I wish the best for you

If you want to have anal sex and have never tried it or are having a hard time getting there you can do a number of things. I have seen pictures and talked with people who have put rather large things up their anus, so I know it can be done. It will probably be a little uncomfortable at first and you may never like it. If that is the case then don’t get too hung up about it. Maybe you can use other things than a penis like maybe a finger. If you like that then maybe you can gradually move to larger objects. Objects always seem larger than they appear when it comes to the anus for me even my wife’s pinky finger.

First, make sure you have a really good lube and something that is silicon based. Water based lubricants absorb quickly. Next, massage the muscles around the anus. To me it helps relax it. As someone pointed out in a previous post there are two sphincter muscles that help keep things in until you are ready. The first sphincter muscle is pretty easy to get past; the second wasn’t for me at first.

After a while of massaging gently start to enter the anus with a finger. Go in part way and then come back out and re-lubricate. Slowly you can work it all the way in. For a guy who is receiving the prostate is now accessible which can greatly enhance your orgasm.

Always remember to go slowly until your partner is ready for it. Next, if you are looking to ultimately get something larger in the there try using two fingers. Again, go very slowly and if something starts to hurt back off. You can always try it again another time, but if it hurts too much then your partner will likely not be interested in the future.

If you are working on getting a penis in there then I would gradually work more and more fingers or even smaller to larger dildos until you have one that approximates the size of his penis.

Also, don’t just do it. Women need to be nurtured with foreplay during regular sex usually. This will probably need even more.

Always remember to use a condom on the penis. The rectum is filled with all sorts of bacteria and it can give the guy a UTI. Never go straight from the anus to the vagina, even it they do it in the porn movies, because she can get a UTI from that. Always wash off first. You can even use a anti-bacterial lotion to ensure cleanliness. Just don’t put that inside of her because it will hurt. Just make sure it is washed off as best possible.

Finally, relax and enjoy it if you can. If not then don't do it.

First off yes clean the bowls out, second use the lube specific to anal sex. Also you will probably need to get a dildo and start practicing. Get yourself used to it that way it doesn't hurt. I've had girls before that say it hurts when they aren't used to it.

Aside from me finding it strange someone would have anal sex before vaginal, you have to make sure your bowels are empty. For some people, during anal sex, they .empty his or her bowels all over the partner's.equipment. It's uncontrollable. I can't say for sure if there's a way to conquer that or prepare for it, I just want to warn you that this does happen.

Try and get more people's advice and look on the internet for more information. There are also risks of ripping. The anus wasn't really designed for a penis, though it can very well take it. Some people experience quite a bit of pain for his or her first time. Considerably more so than the breaking of the hymen I imagine. If you plan to do it, make sure your partner goes very slowly as to gradually stretch the anus until there isn't a problem anymore.

Again, seek more information. I hope I helped.

never double dip! keep it in one or the other or make sure you change the condom or clean himself after he has been in your rectum because it can cause infections