What is something you wish you had known BEFORE you had sex for the first time?

I wish I had been taught anything. I had no idea what to do or how to do it. I would have appreciated my sex education classes be a little less about he dangers and threats and a little more about connecting with the person I was with and making a little more spiritual. Don't get me wrong. I loved doing even fumbling around, but had a clue then I think the experience would have been much better.

I still hadn't been able to master what I know today until I had taken a tantra class. Since that time my sex life has literally exploded for the good.

How completely overrated it was. When it was over I remember thinking "Is that it?" I couldn't believe that was what everybody had been making such a big deal of. I realize now that I felt that way because I wasn't in love with the guy I lost my virginity to. Even though we stayed together for a long time after that night I never did fall in love with him. I think I just did it because all my friends had already done it, it was my senior year of high school and I felt like the last living virgin on earth. I don't regret it because it's part of my history and my history makes me who I am today but I do wish that I would have been more patient with myself.

That at some point this moment wasn't going to seem like such a big deal and I shouldn't worry about it quite so much.

Even though you should be in love the first time, it's better to lose it to a friend, because when you and the guy you lost it to breakup it hurts sooooo much more

That it was actually gonna hurt kind of a lot ha and that the guy was just using me -.-

I wish I didn't drink so much so I wouldn't have lost it at that age and to that idiot who I don't even like in the slightest