So I'm a pretty sexual guy, and I can't help but be led by my instincts when I see a curvy girl. Now obviously I want to respect the women so I always try to look only if they are looking in another direction. My question is, do girls actually get flattered if they see a guy looking at their chest? I mean, from my perspective, I find women's chests very attractive and it is the only reason I look. Or do girls feel seriously offended? Although it seems that girls are supposed to get mad when a guy does, what do girls really think when they notice a guy stealing a glance?
I'm a bit flattered, but it also depends on the guy. If I'm not interested in him I get a bit creeped out. But if he's only looking at my chest and not at my face, its annoying.
I love when I catch a guy looking, it's flattering. But just keep in mind we may put it out there, but you don't have the right to oogle or blatantly stare throughout a whole conversation. A few glances are flattering, blatantly trying to drag your eyes away is also flattering even if it dos make it a bit awkward, but just staring at my boobs while I'm trying to talk is too far. We shouldn't have to dress like hags because you have no self control.
Sorry if I went off. Bad experiences, that have nothing to do with you (you seem very sweet and respectful).
A glance is okay a stare not so much specifically if I'm talking to you, focus on my face. Also depends on the situation. A bar might be okay, at work or in a professional situation, not so appropriate.
Personally, I love my cleavage, and if I put it out there, I expect guys to look at it. I would totally be flattered. If I catch him, I might try to make eye contact and smile at him, or wink. I think it's cute.
Honestly, I notice it when guys do it sometimes and I don't care. I'm not offended usually, unless I'm talking to them and they are directly watch only the girls. But if I catch them looking while I'm doing something else, it's not big deal. It's happened so much over my life that I've come to realize that it's just a mans nature to do it. I don't think a lot of the time they even mean to or intend to, their eyes just do there.
I agree with justthefriend. A glance doesn't bother me, and yeah, I have to admit I would find it flattering. But anything longer than a brief glance and I'll be snapping my fingers in front of his eyes like, "Hey, my face, it's up here!" Haha. I wouldn't say I'd be offended. I'd be creeped out if it was a guy staring endlessly from across the room who didn't have the backbone to just come -talk- to me. I'd be annoyed but amused and a bit flattered if it was a male friend I was talking to. But either way, I wouldn't let it go on for long.
And if it continues after I try to get him to stop, well, that's when I would get really annoyed. But I can't say I'd ever be "offended." Just either creeped out or annoyed.
I caught myself staring at this chick's chest once and was like, "Oops, sorry!" and after that, she wore the same top like ten times in like 2 months! I thought it was cool!
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