Gentlemen, women fall in love with their doctors all the time! Why can't men do the same thing ?

This is probably as good a question to pose on "Sexuality" as anywhere. I have heard women say that they were 'in love" with their doctors or they at least seemed to feel that way. I recently had a major surgery, as the result of a 'lifting' injury resulting in a abdominal hernia...My GP, God bless him referred me to a female surgeon... When this woman walked into the room to meet me, I was STUNNED...She appeared to be European Spanish, tall, straight as an arrow, teeth like Tom Cruise, brown hair in ringlets to her shoulders...eyes that look right to your soul... Being the observer that I am, she had the hands and fingers of a concert pianist, (long, tapered, delicate) not unlike what you would expect in a surgeons hands. She was dressed, fit to kill, wearing expensive looking slacks, top with a gold 'closure' holding the top together above the breast line, heels, AND hose...I damn sure noticed everything. To top it off, during my meetings with her prior to the surgery, she at several points, touched me on the hand / arm and on the leg while she talked to me about the procedure...(Doesn't get any better than that, I don't think) Prior to 'putting my lights out' in the surgical suite, she said to me "Don't worry, this is going to be fine" Now, I ask you gentlemen,(ladies too if you care to comment)... wouldn't you find yourselves 'in love' with a woman/surgeon/doctor like that ? I was actually embarrassed afterward to have been there, naked, with a urinary catheter in my penis, with this beautiful woman putting surgical instruments into my abdomen. Even in a follow-up consultation post op, I was a little bit giddy / with shakey knees when she asked me to pull up my shirt to check the incision points... I have NEVER had an experience like that...never having any kind of medical procedure done by a woman...and I damn sure would opt for a woman AGAIN based on that. I hope this is "OKAY' for the 'sexuality' part of this site...because I certainly felt the sexual overtones of my interaction with this woman surgeon... How do you think you would have felt, given these circumstances ?
Get over it Bruce ! That wouldn't have fazed me a F&^%$## bit !
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Damn, I see what you mean ! What hospital does she practice in ?
Vote B
Well, guy, that is going to happen more often with more women in medicine.
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Well, Bruce, now you see how that can happen to a woman in the same situation !
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  • Its happened tome, &i thin it is entirely reasonable for you.

    Doctors are as close to our deepest most vulnerable parts as anyone can get - save a psychologist... & If they are hot, well then they physically personify the affect they have on our souls. It is really a transcendental feeling to fall in love with someone who has saved a piece of you, or has the power to heal...

    For meit even feels iunnocent & natural because thet are intimate wuthout being lustful initially - you get toknow them on a really soulful level.

    ( I never planned on marriage but there was an asian doctor I fell in love with & I used to joke- privately - that he was supposed to be my husband...

    & The hands well I ,mean it is unbelievable - a doctors touch as a lover , I don't know what could compare.

    I can not however tell you what to do about the particular Doctor, but as with anything in life...

    Well what else is life for , but to make an effort to be the best most helpful versions of ourselves as possible...

    Follow you heart I guess, I mean why not - really. ^ ^

  • it's absolutely normal and reasonable.

    And yay! A surgeon :) She sounds like a boss ass lady with a great sense of fashion. Can't wait till I'm one myself :D

Most Helpful Guys

  • I've had over 20 surgeries and have never had any romantic or lust type feelings for any of the many female nurses, nor the few female doctors I've had. I imagine it's quite common place for others though. I always just assume any niceness or what may appear to be flirting on their part is simply them doing their job to put me at ease and make me as comfortable as possible with the situation at hand. I'll take that over the bitc* that slapped me in the arm where my IV was located to wake me up, any day XD

    • I'd pick A but that seems a bit harsher on you than I'd like it to be=P

    • Thanks.......but sometimes persons on this site feel a need to be harsh, even when it is only in a 'tongue-in-cheek way. Regards, Bruce

    • I am honest, and sometimes blunt, but I'm never rude. I do what's necessary to get my point across, nothing more. Although I'm sure I fail at times. I am a redhead, we have anger issues. XD

  • Well, I wouldn't necessarilyhave fallen for her just because she's a doctor, after all. But tall, Spanish looking, I sure might have had some fantasies about her.

    My father's doctor during his last illness was an Indian woman, self assured, compassionate, a little flirtatious...I still think about her.

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  • I've never had a hot doctor in my life lmao

  • my buddy is 23 and he's getting a 36 year old doctor right now.