I hate it when guys pressure girls for sex. They don't understand that girls think more about sex as an emotional thing than they do and see it as just sex.
What annoys you the most?
Update: U people don't have to get so offensive of what I said about what annoys me the most. That's my opinion NOT yours. I'm not generalizing women, It's just what I've experienced and what people I know tell me and also what I've noticed. So relax!
4 months ago
it annoys me when I'm really turned on and I know she is too and there is no problem with nothing but then she just stops messing around with me and she gives me no reason for this!
im an understanding guy and I can and will understand if there is something wrong or something but just stopping without giving me a reason or explanation annoys me
It annoys me when girls aren't straight up, to the point, and honest with guys. I'm not saying ALL girls do this, but I have encountered quite a few. Guys are very simple, we're very straight forward. We don't want you to send signals, signs. We don't want you to beat around the bush, just be honest with us. If we try and pursue you, and you don't like us, tell us. Don't give us some lie, or lead us on, or whatever. If you want to break up with us, tell us why. Don't give lame excuses. We'd rather be hurt and know the truth, so we can get over it and move on, then to not know what really happened, and not be able to get over it, because we have no clue what went wrong. I would never fault a girl for being completely honest. Obviously there are right and wrong ways to say things, but if she tells me the truth, then I have a lot more respect for her.
Funny you say this. I'm actually a straightforward person myself. yet for some reason, the guys that I've encountered are the ones who beat around the bush, lead me on, just disappear with no explanattion whatsoever. so when I hear guys saying stuff like this, it just makes me really wonder if it's guys that are complicated and not girls.
i'm not trying to push any male buttons here but it's just something that I wanted to point out. what girls do, guys do too. - 2 months ago
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Well that's a good question. It just depends on the person. But yeah, guys do beat around the bush sometimes as well. But most of the girls I've encountered don't say what they want, or give an opinion, or are just honest and shoot straight with me. But maybe I've just been unfortunate with the girls I met, lol. - 2 months ago
Haha I find it annoying it when I'm holding my boyfriends and he lets go to scratch his crotch and then tries to hold my hand again. And amen about guys trying to pressure girls
when you think a guy likes you and then he says he doesn't! he flirts with you and then says he doesn't want to be involved with you =[[[ this has recently happened to me and I want to tell him that I like him butt he has a gf!
That they never seem to be satisfied with one girl or what they have and feel the need to cheat, lie and be the idiots they are. That they can't be honest and love playing games.
I think you have the sex's mixmatched a tad here, girls cheat more than guys prodominately, yet they come out and blame us constantly, and group us into one category. I've been cheated on at least twice, and probably a lot more than I know of. So it's not just guys. - 2 months ago
Wow, I can't believe what people people saied regarding YOUR opinion. I do agree with the part that guys do pressure girls for sex. But what annoys me the most is when guys don't let me hang out with my other guys friends or my friends in general. *this doesn't mean all guys are like this, I know there are good guys out there*. But the people who won't let their partner hang out with the opposite sex. That's just controlling. And its extremely annoying. If you don't trust them in the first place, you shouldn't be dating them.
Quick question? Why don't you have girls that are your friends? For what reason do you need to hang with another guy? Maybe did you think it's because a guy can never be "JUST" friends with a girl, and we know that; so ya we do get pissed about it. Weather we are a so called "good guy" as you put it or not, it's weather we admit to you that it upsets us. If it does, then why do it? Unless you like to upset guys? If so why be with them. - 2 months ago
I don't know. Guys may pressure girls, although they sometimes do the same and then retract from the situation. So it's not any one persons fault. We both want to play, one of us just doesn't want to admit it. That's the problem. Women frequently just "act" as if they don't want it, because if they do, "well he'll think I'm easy." Which honestly is a self esteem issue of her's. If he thought so little of you, would he want to do the nasty with you? Huh? gave a thumbs up on the second one. - 2 months ago
Theres times when he's not in the mood too beleive it or not. Kinda like that hole backrub thing I saw another girl on here say. Is he really asking that much for you to show interest? Like the other girl said in another post, I wouldn't ask anything of my girl that I wouldn't do myself. There where times when I was married I wasn't in the mood and she was. It was a trade off, your not always going to be in the mood at the same time. - 2 months ago
When a guy will flirt with you and you do the same back, and all he tells you is that he just wants to be 'friends'. And you guys are just 'friends' and he still flirts with you.
Dinner at home or shopping with my bf. Every time I go shopping with my boyfriend we split costs of everything we will both be eating, but if its something I just have at my place, he doesn't seem to realize there was once a price tag attached to it.
Also while he's smart enough to help make dinner, he never makes it back to the kitchen to clean up. Or he suggests we do them "later" and "later" always seems to be after he leaves.
I'm not a housewife. I'm at work and school for a total of over 50hrs a week and then on top of it there is homework too. If you look at free time, he's the one with more, and he has fewer expenses (he still lives at home). So why can't he at least go 50-50 on mutual expenses and the clean up of mutual messes? Everything else about him is fantastic, but after an 11hr day, the extra 20minutes dishes take before I can relax, almost make me want to hurl them at him.
Typical feminist answer. In your situation this very well may be the case not there, not you. Although I work 67-70 hours a week. So, I guess I'm not about to feel sorry for a girl haveing to do dishes after 50 hours. If equality is what you want, I understand. Although equality isn't always equal. In a perfect world, I don't think there will ever be a Perfect trade off. You can come close which is nice. Although you can only do so much, why not ask him if it bothers you so dearly? - 2 months ago
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I don't really think you understood... I said 50hrs plus homework/studying on top of that. That's basically the equivalent of your work week. I doubt you would take it well if some chick expected you to clean up her stuff, especially when her work/school week was about a third of yours. - A month ago
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 4 months ago
Well don't let that pressure mess with ur head if ur not ready its always good to wait.What annoys me the most is when they lead a girl on and at the end they break things up never get back to you you know.
Maybe they ran for a reason? Sometimes guys have reasons for bolting you know. - 2 months ago
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Yeah because he only wanted booty and I didn't give it to him.I don't know if I should regret that I didn't or be happy with my choice because I do miss him a lot. - 2 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 4 months ago
