He called me a slut but am I really?

This is definitely hard to answer really I am torn for what you did to your friend and the fact that you let him do whatever to you because you wanted to make him happy yeah I would call you a slut with a harsh warning of ignorance and hope to all might heaven that you learned your dang lesson there. This guy is a tool but your young we all make mistakes when we are young, but learn from it, don't betray your friends for a little sexual touching and kissing, when the one comes along then you will know. But I strongly advise that you think twice about the next time you let someone take advantage of you for a ride home.

A slut is anyone who has better sex than the speaker does. As such, it's kind of confession of sexual incompetence or simple immaturity. In this case, he was using it as a way to gain favor with the other girl by putting you down. His judgment is flawed and you don't need to hang out with people who are stupid enough to denigrate their sex partners.

Dont let a guy manipulate you so easy and never let a guy push you past your boundaries cause him making you do something you don't want to is wrong! And I wouldn't call you a slut cause your not doing this with a bunch of guys and your not having sex either! Just tell him he's a using bastard and tell your friend that he did that knowing that she liked him anyways!

I would certainly say you're not a slut. You just did what came naturally because of the attention you were getting and his asking you and leading you on. From reading all what you said about how it went, never did I see where you made the first moves. You said you were uncomfortable with it at first and if he had stopped I'm sure you'd not pursued him. Also, your friend wasn't going with him at the time. Like they weren't boyfriend-girlfriend so in a way he was fair game. It was your friend that asked you to not do anything with him but you weren't obligated to not let anything happen unless you promised that you wouldn't! Even if you had and he hadn't canceled on you, I'd still say you weren't a slut. Right, it was all his idea and his telling your friend should tell you what kind of guy he is. I have a few names for him but I'll let you come up with your own. lol! It takes a lot more than that to make a slut out of a girl. I'd say you're pretty cool and I hope your friend understands and doesn't hold anything against you because that'd be so unfair. This should tell your friend what kind of guy he is now so she should be glad she never got mixed up with him. Just hold your head high because you didn't do anything wrong.

I don't know if it makes you a slut. But why would you do something that you didn't want to? He' s just using you.

i'm sorry but yes you are you let him do any thing he wanted to you that's wrong and I'm sorry but your a backstabber you promised your friend that you would not do any thing with him.

That doesn't make you a slut. Don't take this offensively, but it does make you a little ignorant. You liked him and wanted to please him, while doing things you didn't want to do. Your first hint should have been when he kept pushing for things you didn't want to do. But it happens to a lot of people, so don't feel too bad about it. At least you didn't sleep with him. If your worried about your friend and what she thinks of you sit her down and tell her that he kind of pushed you into it. If she's a real friend she will understand and won't be mad at you.

You're not a slut, but I think it was a bit stupid of you letting him do stuff you were uncomfortable with for his own happiness, what about yours?! Your best friend is understandably angry with you, imagine if you were in her shoes! Not only did she already tell you she would be really mad, but she probably knows what you're really like so she knows that most likely you would have been uncomfortable doing the stuff and that it isn't really your style. I think you and your best friend need to talk about this!

if you don't want to do it, dont.

No, I would not go so far as calling you a slut and scarring your self-image. Take this as a learning experience not to be so easily accommodating to other people's needs. Hopefully you learned a lesson on how people can use you and make your feel low. This guy is a jerk, - a smart, sneaky one at that.

Your friend was just looking out for you and if she is your real friend, she will stand by your side when you admit that you had made a mistake. Fortunately, you did not do any permanent damage like have sex or become this jerk's girlfriend. Just write this off in your life's journal as a bad choice you made. But shame on you if you make that same mistake again.

Forget about it and learn the lesson not to let others take advantage of you, especially when someone close gave you a warning and most especially if you knew you had felt uncomfortable about it in the beginning.

Why did you do it if you uncomfortable?