Did I pressure my girlfriend into sex?

you kinda did push her into it in the end its her move but you made it very clear what you want and she seems to want to take care of you like many girls they want to keep there man happy especially in that area

Well you didn't FORCE her. She made the decision to go get on the pill. Yeah you probably encouraged her to make the decision you did, but frankly if it's been 2 years and your just starting to ask for it, your way ahead of the pack in the polite department. Most guys are not that patient. Don't feel bad your just expressing your feelings, but maybe next time you mention wanting to having sex you should refer to it as "wanting to make love to her." It might be a little easier to hear for a virgin. Oh and like a few of them down there said, use a condom as well as the birth control, at least for the first couple months just to make sure. Take Care and Good Luck.

You didn't force her but you definitely made her think that maybe it was time with all of your begging! Maybe to put your mind at ease you should talk to her about it without saying anything like "i'm so horny", more like would she feel comfortable having sex soon etc. When you're saying how you feel in the present (the hornyness) with her in a WAY you are kind of pushing her. Don't bring your feelings into it, find out how she feels about it!

It sounds like you did push her somewhat, but she did ultimately make the choice on her own. I don't know exactly what her values are, but if you care about her, then you won't push her to do something that she is going to feel guilty about later. It's not something that can be undone, so make sure that she knows that she doesn't -have- to do it if she doesn't want to. At the very worst, she'll be really, really pleased with you for being so sweet and understanding.

Well, you need to talk to her about it. Just sit her down, no pressure, and ask her. Make sure she knows that you only want to have sex if she wants it, too, not just because you want to. Don't do anything before she's ready, because she could really resent you for it later on.

haha thats cute
you sound so horny.
it seems like you "forced" her a little. but its ok.
Regardless of what we say, its not going to take that guilty feeling away, so I suggest, after she starts taking the pill, DONT initiate.
Wait for her to make the move. then you won't feel so guilty, and then you can smile and think. game on ;)

Nah, I don't think you forced her. I think she wants to do it too. It's normal for a guy to be kind of a driving force behind stuff like this. I'm sure she wants to please you, but I also think she's interested too.

Dude I honestly feel like the pity party train just derailed in your bedroom harsh yes but that's offside man if she said her values prevent her from having actual sex you need to sit down and talk with her about what her values are and ask yourself. 1. If you love her or care about her, are you willing to respect her values and wait for her to be ready so your not climbing on her and go limp from guilt. 2. Are you being selfish and begging her in a sense? And lastly 3. If your feeling guilty and asking people about whether or not you made the right decision I think you need to realize what your not seeing and read between the lines.

You said "her "values" prevent her from actual sex but wtf she blows me all the time". Sounds like she was never really interested in blowing you either, but convinced herself to allow oral sex to keep you in the game and gave up one of her "values". Sounds like she is struggling with her values, which is a little sad. If you are really horny, another blow job will take care of that condition. You didn't mention one way or the other, but are you a virgin too? If you are not, and have had sex with a girl before her, my hat is off to you for your patience. If you are still a virgin, then I must tell you that the feeling you get when you orgasm via Blow Job is about 99.99999% the same as when you orgasm from intercourse. The only thing really different is that you can kiss her at the same time and hold her with your arms around her in an embrace. That .00001% difference can make ALL the difference when you are in love, but the physical experience is roughly the same. I think you should really talk about how she will feel about losing another "value" to you. The guilt she will most likely feel afterwords could wiggle it's way into your relationship and the possible outcome could be quite ugly. Also, don't forget about your guilt too. You obviously have some or you would not have come on here to ask your question.

PS - A girl who has done nothing but given blow jobs for a year to a horny teenage boy (I was horny ALL the time. I was horny before, during and after sex - still am!) must have a pretty good talent for it by now. It would be a shame (for you) to lose that talent because of "how badly I wanna f*** her". Give her space. Shoot, ask her to marry you. (Wouldn't really advise that because you are both so young, but I would bet her "values" would advise her to.) Good luck.

You mentioned that she blows you all the time, but what have you done for her? Maybe she thinks this will be all about you again and she's afraid. When you say she's really horny and then say she's the type of person you have to nag to get anything out of her, that doesn't seem to go together as far as I'm concerned. Is this a good loving relationship or what is it? Do you think she loves you as much as you love her? As I read everything you said it sounds like you guys don't match but yet you're still together. She's no doubt a virgin and really doesn't know what to do, and since you've brought it up enough times for her to know what you want and expect out of her, I'd not pressure her anymore than you already have unless based on your experience with her you seriously think this is what it's going to take. Do you have any intentions of marrying her some day? I'd say that she's finally coming to the conclusion that if she's going to stay with you she needs to have sex with you so it's her decision but brought about by your constantly asking. Just wait a short time for her to do what she said she's gonna do and see if that happens. But if she stalls again, don't wait too long to sit down with her when you're both in a good mood at your favorite restaurant and seriously talk about the sexual part of your relationship and what each of you needs out of it to make it more successful and happy. You need to find out what is REALLY bothering her and holding her back so that you both can be working on the right solution and not on something that's not even the main problem. Make sure to listen especially good plus be aware of her body language.

2 years?

Dude, you gotta test drive before you purchase.

haha, well don't get too impatient. You have to take birth control for I believe a month before it actually works.