okay so me and this girl are talking dirty and she wants me to turn her on by saying what I would do sexually to her but I'm out of ideas. help me . and guys if you could like write what you would do to a girl. and girls would you write what you like? if you would do that it would be amazing
Tell her she drives you WILD. That you love her wet pussy, and you just want to F**k her all day cos she feels so good! Say things like, "Do you like my cock, baby? Does it feel good?" "That cock's all yours baby!"
Stuff like that.
I think it's really important that you make it clear to her (moaning a little or just telling her) that you're enjoying what's going on, more importantly, you're enjoying what she's doing to you. Maybe that's a part of the reason she wants you to talk dirty to her? So she can gauge what gets you the most excited? You guys want us to moan and stuff, cos it tells you if you're doing the job right or not. I think most girls want that too.
If a girl is asking you to do that, don't be afraid to say things that have you in control. Like that you want to grab her and push her down on a bed and rip her clothes off and f*** her hard. Like go into as much detail as you can, particularly with things that have you in control. I know that sounds kinda rough, but girls like the idea that they're driving a guy so crazy that he just can't help himself, especially girls who are asking to be talked to like this.
Oh, and I don't know what the first answerer's problem is, but I hope you don't take any of that crap seriously.
Sorry you got bombarded by the Moral Squad. Don't let them make you feel bad. Talking dirty is totally normal. The thing with girls is detail. You have to tell her exactly how you're going to kiss her, the way you're going to run your tongue along her neck and nibble on her earlobe while you run your hands through her hair.everything. Girls are very imaginative, so the more details you give them, the more they'll get turned on. Tell her every second, every little move. Every flick of your tongue and caress of your hand. Don't hold back. :)
Hm, well, pick something you know you want to do to her. Stripping her, licking, fingering, etc. and then to go from there, just tell her HOW you're gonna do it. If it were me, I'd love to hear my guy's voice get all low and sultry, telling me how he's gonna drive me nuts. Good luck!
"But also why not be horny when you’re about to have sex (in the bounds of marriage)? Also if you’re having sex outside of marriage, when it’s not supposed to be that way, you’re only encouraging crappier sexual relations with other people, it’s uglier and you’re missing the whole point."
Not EVERYONE is into that Christian bullshit. In fact, lots of people aren't. So don't preach your shite here. - A month ago
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You definitely just responded to the wrong person. - A month ago
So no offense or anything but do you realize that you’re just filling your mind with crap. I’ve done the whole talking dirty thing before; it feels good at the moment. But I feel so yucky after I do it. Running and being with friends, just doing things I enjoy at night are much better. Yes you’re getting horny that’s an amazing feeling don’t get me wrong. But also why not be horny when you’re about to have sex (in the bounds of marriage)? Also if you’re having sex outside of marriage, when it’s not supposed to be that way, you’re only encouraging crappier sexual relations with other people, it’s uglier and you’re missing the whole point.
Uhhh wow I was just trying to get her horny. - 2 months ago
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So what are you trying to say? You didn't like what I said or are you just justifying yourself? - 2 months ago
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Whoooo chill . I'm just saying that its harmless talk. are you upset at someone? - 2 months ago
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No lol you're missing the point. I'm not upset at anybody but at what people are doing these days. I'm not so sure that this is undamaging talk. Love isn't the same anymore, it's all about sex. You’re encouraging the girl to make herself come out as less. In my perspective I'm waiting for the guy that will attempt to make me happy, as in a smile on my face, not a horny feeling just to satisfy my sexual needs. Why not show her something, that guys can actually I don’t know respect her for her? - 2 months ago
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What? are you saying that I don't respect the women I'm dating? I don't think you know me well enough to say that. but I do understand how you feel about the fact that men are horny alot. but it's a common stereotype that all men think about is sex . we want a relationship me want a girl that will make us happy. and yes a girl we can have sex with but I don't think you should com on so strongly about how I'm missing the point when you don't really know how a guy thinks - 2 months ago
I can't see why you can't have all of that. Smiles, happiness and sexual satisfaction go together very well. My girlfriend is all into that, and I respect her very much still. It's a strange world, isn't it. - 2 months ago
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That's not what I'm saying at all. Getting horny isn't a bad thing! Encouraging it, especially since she's your "girlfriend" and not your "wife" is another. It's human nature I get it. But yes you have the desire to create strong emotions in her behavior because that gives you a good feeling that you have the ability to do that; pleasuring her :( I just wish people would understand that this isn't love, I don't know how to describe this to you. I'm sorry for wasting your time. - 2 months ago
You're not wasting my time. I'm wasting it myself spending time here instead of studying ;) You seem a bit confused. I don't only aim to pleasure my girlfriend sexually, but also in every other way possible. Doing everything in ones power to make someone else feel good regardless - that's love. Marriage and love do not necessarily go together. Other than that, I believe one should have some experience (including sexual) before one decides to marry. But that's just me, European and liberal. - 2 months ago
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But that's why marriage doesn't work out now. I mean this is only my opinion, my virginity is a gift to my husband. Yes I've been tempted to have sex before and yes I've doubted my values. But my values are protecting me for something better, I don't know what you're outlook on God is but since He created these emotions inside of me he knows what's best, and he will provide the best a guy that will give me the deepest sexual satisfaction more than I could imagine. But that's just my opinion. - 2 months ago
"But also why not be horny when you’re about to have sex (in the bounds of marriage)? Also if you’re having sex outside of marriage, when it’s not supposed to be that way, you’re only encouraging crappier sexual relations with other people, it’s uglier and you’re missing the whole point."
Not EVERYONE is into that Christian bullshit. In fact, lots of people aren't. So don't preach your shite here. - A month ago
"But also why not be horny when you’re about to have sex (in the bounds of marriage)? Also if you’re having sex outside of marriage, when it’s not supposed to be that way, you’re only encouraging crappier sexual relations with other people, it’s uglier and you’re missing the whole point."
Not EVERYONE is into that Christian bullshit. In fact, lots of people aren't. So don't preach your shite here - 28 days ago
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I'm really sorry if I came off in a way where I'm trying to make myself seem like I want to convert people because I found this out for myself. But I'm doing it out of love more than anything. Sorry - 27 days ago
Alright I'm gonna take a crack at the 'hypothetical' I'm assuming this discussion is taking place via IM or perhaps the phone.but then you two could simply be sitting on the couch. and at the risk of sounding uber-corny or trite. Id tell her something like: If I had you locked up in your room.I'd throw you onto the middle of the mattress, grasp the top part of those lace panties with my teeth, slide them slowly down those creamy thighs then right off your ankles. Force your thighs apart, drop kisses along your inner thigh bypassing your pink then with the pointed tip of my tongue, flick it against your clit meanwhile taking my hands and greedily grabbing on your tits.running both hands along the taut curves that define your body, my tongue penetrating progressively deeper. I'd then lift your legs over my shoulders.allowing me to lick you from the bottom to the top of your clit.after that I'd grab you by the waist and turn you over until you are on all fours.I would lean forward grabbing your hair and pulling it the side as I bit hard on the side of your neck. I'd take the silk scarf sitting by the nightstand, covering it over your eyes and tying it behind your head. Then I lean by your ear. "IF YOU ONLY KNEW WHAT I PLAN TO DO WITH YOU FOR THE NEXT SEVERAL HOURS."
Ok, start out with telling you that you want to touch her somewhere. Start somewhere completely innocent, and then you end up somewhere less innocent. Tell her you'd like to oil her up and give her a massage. Think of places you'd like to have sex in. A park? Your bedroom? The shower? Whatever comes to mind. Then you think about undressing her and so on. I'm sure your imagination will help you out from there on.
Google some dating websites, check out Cosmopolitan and follow sex instructions there if you want to get into details.
And nevermind the girl who answered to your question before me. She's obviously crazy and should not be listened to.
So guys, what are our views on talking dirty? Does it turn you on to be talking to a girl and suddenly you find yourself talking dirty to each other?...
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