All right, I have been on this forum for about 9 months now and here is my First (and possibly last) question. I have been thinking about what to ask for months, and this is all I could come up with - sorry about the lameness, but I am actually curious. I might even add a poll. Anyway. - to the question:
Ladies (Guys can answer too, but we ALL know your answer already - Forever, right!? LOL!), when you are feeling horny, how long does it last? A few minutes, hours, days, weeks? My wife's ovulation lasts anywhere from 3 to 7 days. During those days, I am Adonis the Greek God and can do no wrong in her eyes. After her week, she is indifferent to me. Then the PMS (ouch!) for a week, followed by another week of indifference coming full circle back to the Greed God. Basically, from a God to poop on a rock and back to a God again in a month. It is like an E-ticket ride at Disneyland. Fun to frightening to fun. Just wondering how long your "Fun" lasts? Thanks.
So, does your LEVEL of horniness vary? In other words, are you hotter for it at certain times of the month more than others? If so, how long - a day, a week? - 3 months ago
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The level of horniness does vary. Usually about a week after my cycle ends. It will last a good 4-5 days. What's funny is that I have heard that that's the animal instinct. I'm ovulating around that time so something inside me makes me want to mate. - 3 months ago
except for a few days right before and right after my period. I'm horny ALL the time! I can't get enough, I don't know. it doesn't matter for me if I see my boyfriend everyday for weeks on end, or haven't seen in him a month like right now, I still want him several times a day. and I'm like this all the time. There are of course those few days, only because I really really don't feel good, but I'm not indifferent to him, I just would prefer a back rub as apposed to some other kind of rub.
It sure does help. Thanks for the answer. Do you find your arousal level or horniness to be higher when you know he is coming home soon, or is it just an itch waiting to be scratched ALL the time at the same level? - 3 months ago
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It deff gets higher the sooner I know he is coming home, but it's still pretty intense, because I know that if he were around that we would be well.. doing stuff - 3 months ago
Depends on the woman. Some women are really only horny every 6 months (but want sex 4-5x a day when they are on) while others are happy with daily+ sex. It can fluctuate with menstruation but the horny points can vary (some are hottest when ovulating, some when on the rag).
Men is another story all together. Men start to lose their sexual ability and interest in their mid 20s and can lose all interest in a regular partner fairly quickly. The more comfortable they are, the more their hormone levels drop and the less interested they are in sex. After awhile, they can actually lose the ability to have sex (use it or lose it syndrome). While there are some guys that are consistently horny, that is not the experience of many. Its sad in a way because when men are denied sex long enough, they sometimes stop wanting it all together.
Dude I am in my 20s and horny as hell all the time I don't know what you your talking about , its not that hard to get sex from a girl its quite simple. - 3 months ago
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A single date point isn't a trend, I'm afraid. - 3 months ago
Question Asker
I must be a trend buster, because at 41, I am just as horny (& capable - if you know what I mean) now as I was at 18 - if not even more so! The only difference is that I get a lot more sex (Thanks Baby!) now than I ever did at that age. Granted, I don't always get to have those 5 to 6 hour sex fests I used to have when I was younger, but only because I have to get up & go to work. Plus, I didn't have to schedule my sex life around the schedules of my 3 kids. Why do kids want to grow up so fast? - 3 months ago
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You really are because I hear the complaints from my lovers all the time. They finally figure out that it is perfectly ok to enjoy sex and their husband figures out he has a favorite chair. There is a reason viagra is more popular than crack. - 3 months ago