I want JUST SEX from my male friend. How is this done exactly?

Tell him you want to be friends with benefits and see if he's cool with it. It won't ruin your friendship to ask believe me and he might totally want you just as bad so just tell him straight out its the best way!

Call him and ask him if he wants to go out or get together with you some night. When you are on a "date" with him, take him back to your place and f-ck his brains out (or go to his place)! Unless he is wanting a relationship with you first before doing it, I seriously doubt that he is going to turn you down! If it makes it any easier, you guys could have a few drinks beforehand. After you're finished with him, ask him if it's ok if the two of you get together and do this now and then. If he says yes, tell him that you will call him when you want to do it again. (It's called a Booty Call!) Let him know that it might not be all the time but that you definitely enjoy it and want to do that with him. Most guys in their right minds won't turn this down unless they let their hearts get involved. If you think he's the type of guy to get attached to you, you could always find somebody else who would be willing. Does this help?

Most of early dating experience is just sexual. there is nothing wrong with feeling that way and you are to be commended for understanding the feeling for what it is.

The best way to approach it is straight-forward. I'd like to have sex with you. I am not looking for a relationship, I am not looking for a boyfriend. All I ask is that you be willing, discrete and practice safer sex.

I have a number of friends with whom I have this arrangement for any number of reasons (married, not ready for a committed relationship, dating someone who is very vanilla). They can work out very well if the participants can accept the relationship for what it is (friendly sex) and not try to make it something else.

get drunk with him and in the morning be like wow that was a bad idea. lets not do that again because some one is going to get hurt.

Guys are looking for that kind of experience much more often than we are, so you could bet the farm that he will jump at the idea of some pussy with no strings. If he is not for it, I could certainly give you a list of good looking guys who would jump on you in a nano second! LOL

Is booze an option? Because that's a pretty good lubricant for something like that. Even if not, I think you'd be surprised at just how ready guys are for this. Just kissing a guy and telling him you've wanted to do that for a while can do a lot. Deal with the not wanting a relationship later.

Lay out the terms if he's willing to cooperate. It's called being friends with benefits and it can be great but there's a big possibility where one or the other will get hurt. Just tell him straight out "look I find you very attractive and I sometimes have these fantasies where I'm giving you the best blow job you have ever had and I got to tell you I would love to." lol it's something to that effect. Trust me a guy would not turn that down but also tell him that it's a one time thing or maybe not depending if the sex is good. Usually girls are the one's to get attached when they have sex so I don't think that would be a problem. The key is to have confidence and wear something that shows your best features and be the one in charges. Some guys like that and you should be fine. But remember you have to be confident in yourself to pull something this risky. Good luck!