Want to give my friend a blowjob but don't know if I should?

I say get out of the giving head business because to him you're a slut if he's not your loving boyfriend. Giving head doesn't make a guy like a girl. It makes him think she's so easy and makes him feel superior and in control. Like that's the best you can do with a man because none are interested in you for anything else and that's very degrading. Many guys like girls for that reason alone but they won't tell them until she starts putting up a fuss like not wanting to do that all the time anymore or like you said you had a bad having sex experience. That was a very, very poor what to start out. I'm sure it was most due to his inability to take any real interest in your pleasure rather than his own which you've been providing him for a long time. If you're hooked on a guy's genitals rather than him as a person, I wish you good luck for your future because it may turn out not like you want it to.

Hey I would just give him a call maybe he wants to re kindle things with you too who knows. I mean if not you can always get some fun out of it right?

I seriously doubt that most guys would turn that down, but you could tell him you want to get together to talk & see where it goes if it makes you feel less slutty.

I know a lot of women who like to give head and some of them do exactly what you do. I am happy to call them my friends and I am really grateful for their company.
People ask how often do you meet a woman who just wants to suck your cock? (as I said, more than you think but they are afraid of being labeled a slut). If treated well, everyone is happy.

He might be thinking he did something horribly wrong (as evidenced by the fact that you slept with him and never called. Having slept with a few virgins, this did go through my head and I gave them "space" which turned out to be a bad idea.

Call, if he is an ass about it, I will assure you that you can replace him him the dozens of other guys who are grateful for your attention.

oh, and fwiw, I am the same way. I love going down on women and I have struck the same deal with more than one woman, simply because I wanted to see what she looked like when she comes.

well it does not sound like you two ended it well, so I would have to say No I would not call him.

very few guys would turn it down if your reasonably attractive. But it is seen as slutty.

nah don't go back. you don't want to have a f*** buddy- its not a good reputation. and he'll pretend to like you anyway if he knows your going to keep coming back to duck his dick, cause all guys love that. your acting too easy. just find a hot guy who can like you and you like him. and don't just ask a guy to give him head, nobody will respect you

If that's what you want to do, go for it. You don't have t tell him exactly what the deal is over the phone. That's the part that maybe sounds a little slutty. Just say that you'd like to see him, and then when you do you can control what happens. That's totally fine.