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Why not give both at the same time? I pasted most of the following from a previous answer of mine that has gotten favorable reviews. I have pasted it a few times to this very same question. Have fun and thanks for all your hard work:
Practice, Practice, Practice. Your thumb and fingers are a small, but good practice "tool" or buy a cheap dildo. First of all, a blow job is a replacement or "convenient" pussy - warm, wet and soft. Start slow and stay slow and finish him off with a quicker pace by hand or mouth - your choice. A good technique for an average size (6-7 inches) is to simultaneously go down with your mouth while coming up with your hand and meeting your lips with your hand - then reverse. You actually suck on the down stroke and just let it slide out on the upstroke keeping the tongue in constant contact. As you progress with experience, the tongue can do wonderful things on both the up and down strokes (swirl around it, swab it with a big wet "fat" tongue - or make it hard and pointy and try to dig a groove into the underside of the penis with it) The simultaneous squeezing pressure of your hand will make it seem like you are sucking harder than you actually are or think you have to - it doesn't take much, but remember you are SUCKING on the penis. I never really understood why it is called a "Blow Job". This sucking down and pulling up technique also helps you keep from becoming tired - as you are not always trying to "deep throat". Do this simultaneous hand/blow job technique for about 7 to 10 strokes (thats 7 to 10 ups and 7 to 10 downs), then release your hand grip, slide it down to his balls and gently caress and tug on them. When you have gotten to the balls, now is the time for a very slow double/triple attempt at a deep throat. Go down as far as you can without gagging (remember to practice! ) Once you have made 2-3 deep attempts, move your hand back to the shaft and begin the simultaneous hand/blow job again for another 7 to 10 strokes. Practice until you can do this without really thinking about it. As for your jaw when sucking and releasing, try to keep it in an overbite (top teeth in front of the bottom teeth) position. This will help relieve fatigue on your part and naturally opens the rear of your mouth/top of your throat to help prevent the gag reflex. It also naturally causes the rear or base of your tongue to pull back a little to help cover the gag reflex too. Also remember that teeth cannot be avoided unless you wear dentures, in which case remove them first! Otherwise, don't worry too much, just try to not wear out grooves in the same area by raking your teeth over and over in the same spot. You will know he is coming when his dick swells even more. DO-Practice. DO-Stay Warm, Wet & Soft. DO-Mix it up. DO-Make some noise (moan, slurp, hum - BJ's are also called Hummers for a reason) DO-Bite (gently and without malice). DO-Vary the pressure of the hands and mouth. DO-More of whatever elicits a groan. DO MORE!
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