This is a pretty obvious question, but I want to hear everyone's opinions on this taboo topic. As a girl, I often know how to turn men on, and I have a lot of fun "messing" with the minds of male teachers. For instance, I'll be wearing fishnets and a red skirt and then sit provocatively exposing my thigh ("innocently") to test how they'll react. Some BLATANTLY stare because they don't think I notice (some even go out of their way to just stand there. it's creepy. my friends find it hilarious) while other young male teachers -- the less obvious ones -- COMPLETELY ignore me.
My question is, why do some look, and others resist so hard? I mean, what's so bad if I catch him looking? I just don't know why a few (who are just as horny/male) put so much effort into suppressing the urge to ogle.
That's just wrong on SO many levels. There's a reason teachers aren't supposed to do that, and you're seriously stepping over so many lines by trying to get them to look. In my old high school, you'd have been expelled for doing something like that, as much as what I doubt you want to hear that. The guys that are more determined not to look are far more interested in doing their jobs properly rather than doing something that can get them fired (and for a Very good reason). The ones that Do look are the ones that have tried not to notice, but gave into their testosterone after a battle. The ones that blatantly look are losing sight of what their responsibilities are and should get in trouble for it. Don't expect to get away without mention, though.
Men are horny but embarrassed when caught looking at a girl spreading her legs (beaver shot) or staring at her breasts when she wears low-cut dress. Yes you do turn men on by teasing. Even married men or especially married men. Bravo.
Why embarrassed? Is it because they realize what they're doing is unprofessional & weak, or because they think the girl will be offended? - 2 months ago
First of all, You Are BAD. lol. Secondly, the younger ones probably know exactly what your doing. And Lastly, You Are BAD lol. that's kind of funny though. But still Bad
I'm gonna have to agree...BAD BAD BAAAAD. Tisk Tisk... Blue balls can be very damaging - 2 months ago
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You said the younger ones know exactly what I'm doing... so my question is (and there have been times they youngish ones have let me know, like rubbing up and smirking and "looking away" after I try harder to get their attention), what do they think of that? What would a guy think if he knew a girl was messing with him, like this? They don't seem angry... it confuses me. - 2 months ago
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They probably try to ignore it. Remember, they know what's right and what's wrong. - A month ago
First off, you're a bad bad girl, lol. That's messed up. But for the ones that don't look, either they're not interested, or they know it's wrong, so they don't do it.
I kind a think you are playing with fire, I will agree with the guys who said you are a bad girl, but for a different reason. I think you may just end up with more then you bargained for someday. This is not the attention you should be seeking, and I think it is bound to get you in trouble if you keep it up, no matter how innocent you are saying your behaviour is, it's not and you know it. My question is why are you seeking this kind of attention?
As for the answer to your question
Some guys look well because they are guys, if you have something on display they are prone to look at it. And from what you are saying you have been displaying it pretty hard.
The others don't look because they already know what you are all about and they do not want to play your game, you and your game do not interest them.
I make myself sound trashier than I am, lol. But I don't show cleavage, I keep it minimal (it's more of the way I play). I like the attention because I'm breaking them ("safe people") of their ethics.
I catch the younger ones looking, it's just that they quickly turn away. I want to know why they resist more than the older ones who are completely unashamed. I guess my main question is, why do the younger ones try so hard and are they just as "bad" as the older male teachers? I think they are - 2 months ago
Haha. Some don't look because it's unethical and they could lose their job if you go around saying your professor is checking out your legs while you're "just trying to study and learn". It's not "right", they're there to teach you, not check you out. If I were you, I'd just try harder on the resistant ones, they'll break down eventually and you'll be victorious! :)
some of them have been breaking their resistance a little recently -- my trick is, pretending to look elsewhere and then quickly looking at them -- this causes them to quickly turn away!
I always had a thing for teachers and being in a catholic high school yeah not too many guys in an all girl school. I had this one math teacher who was 25 and I had a huge crush on him so I would sit in the front row with my short skirt and my button down shirt revealing a red bra and he would look and I found it amusing because he knew he shouldn't be looking yet he did. The one's that look have no self control and the one's that don't look may not be interested or they do look but you didn't catch them looking. Old teachers that look are considered perverts and I wouldn't want them looking at me but the younger know that they are more likely to get in trouble if someone caught them. I always wanted a hot college professor and can't wait for that one! It's harmless to flirt with teachers
Bad girl...have you gone to confession yet? ;) - 2 months ago
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BTW you are soo BAD! lol... I wish I went to catholic school. I would have had so much fun
yeah I've noticed, the older ones look longer & actually go out of their way to get a better view. I've caught the youngers looking a couple of times but maybe they're just discreet. Why, though, can't they be more obvious? If no one else catches him except me, how is it a problem?
Uhm the only reason I can think of is that, well, they're teachers. They're supposed to be responsible, respectful, and professional. It would reflect badly on them to be caught staring at a student like that.
What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I don't use any lines.. leave those to the cheese balls! I usually start by making a joke, complimenting a part of their outfit, or ask if they are having a good time or like the place.. if they are interested in conversation I will have no trouble making her laugh!
How do they typically respond?
If they don't respond positively or have that look on their face like there is somewhere else they need to be, I drop conversation and move on... otherwise my smile, laugh, and constant eye contact usually causes them to be interested in getting my number or hanging out for a while longer!
