Well I will try anything with a girl, well I've tried almost anything so yes even anal with my girl, she love's it and she like to play with mine to. it does feel good, people should not be afraid of it.
I am both, because long ago I learned to completely ignore my desires and focus solely on my partners desires. Since I really enjoy making her orgasm it is no problem to me. And I have found that by being a giver, I ultimately receive more. I found the more I focused on her needs, ultimately the more Of my desires were met.
Giver. its a turn on to see that she's enjoying it. especially when she begins to writhe and shudder violently and starts grabbing you as her way of telling you she wants more. ;)
I'm much more a giver than a receiver. I think a girl's nature desires that more and it satisfies them more completely. There's more of a connection of love or really liking a girl in a guy giving versus receiving. To him is basically just a bj, but to a girl it's a tremendous compliment and to many. getting loved.