How do I get horny when my boyfriend is?

Try thinking about what he's going to do to you.

Perhaps you should question whether he really does it for you? Fantasizing is great or asking him to tell you his fantasies. Plenty of kissing and mutual touching!

This may sound horrible, but if he can't completely turn you on, you can just close your eyes and pretend it is someone else. Make up a kind of imaginary man that is super fine and think about all the things he could do to you. If you are picturing someone that you know in real life, then maybe you shouldn't be with your BF. Try not to pic someone they you know.

I also love the thrill of almost getting caught. Maybe you guys could try to fool around in a mildly public place, like the movie theater or leave the windows open so you can hear outside. They thrill of getting caught and having to be sneaky is always exciting.

Is there anything that does it? I had this problem when I was taking the pill, but I knew that once he was inside of me I got into it. So after a while I just told him to forgo all the foreplay and skip right to the main event. I don't think this was totally ideal, but it was better than what had been going on before that.