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My husband wants me to masturbate while he watches. To me it's embarrassing. Should I do it?

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Anonymous User (Age:30 to 35)     When: Over a year ago
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My Husband wants to watch me masturbate while he watches. To me it's embarrassing. Should I do it for him anyway? And why?

I definitely do it occasionally, but having someone watch me is embarrassing (even my husband). Should I do it anyway to keep him happy?


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  • larry69
    12664  
    Over a year ago
    Definately keep masturbating for him, it is a huge turn on to a man and will lead to better sex for you...and have him masturbate for you..Its awesome!

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  • scottb80
    956  
    Over a year ago
    Watching a woman masturbate is big turn on for many guys. Chances are he probably won't just be watching.

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  • mischiefmouth69
    -1  
    Over a year ago
    Chances are, whatever you're embarrassed about, he's going to find incredibly hot and sexy, and make it worth your while ... I recommend doing it - and you're in a marriage - you're the only one who should be filling this particular fantasy for him, so don't risk him looking elsewhere.

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    Over a year ago
    Seriously, you should, its an inoffensive present you can give him! besides if you can't do those things in front of him, it means that you need to let yourself go more! once you do it you'll enjoy it too much, trust me!

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  • mf-ibmj
    4203  
    Over a year ago
    i think you should, its totally ok if he likes it, which he does.

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  • dtaylor31906
    5105  
    Over a year ago
    its just something your husband is doing to keep things sparking in the bedroom
    maybe its a fantasy of his to watch a women masturbate right in fron of him its a marriage you shouldnt feel shy about it he sees you naked all the time anyway and ur farley young so I'm suprised you guys aren't running around the house naked all day lol (joke)


    but try to get over it he's your husband lol

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  • HumphreyT
    991  
    Over a year ago
    It's your choice, but I don't see why not.

    He may get tired of watching and join in or he may wait until you are done in which case you get one orgasm before it starts.
    Also, he may learn more about how you like to be touched which surely couldn't be all bad.

    If you do go through with it you can of course make a request of him as well. I think you two should have fun with it and enjoy each other.

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  • chiefnavarro
    -1  
    Over a year ago
    i don't see why this is a problem

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  • GhostMagic
    56  
    Over a year ago
    maybe you should save it for later as gift..maybe in 5 years from now. he should be happy with you anyways for being with him. remind him that.

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  • GhostMagic
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    Over a year ago
    maybe you should save it for later as gift..maybe in 5 years from now. he should be happy with you anyways for being with him.

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  • Trihill
    13783  
    Over a year ago
    why don't you ask him for the same thing?

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    • Over a year ago
      Well maybe you could qet him to do something that you would like as a return qift if you qo threw with it.. but if your not then I'm sure he will be okay if you wait until your ready ..
    • Over a year ago
      Cuz guys jerking it isn't that nice.
 

What Girls Said

  • sweetie_pie
    -1  
    Over a year ago
    ask him to do it and see how he feels about it LOL!

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