Oral gone wrong

hmm don't know if this helps but usually what I do to my girlfriend is have her over my face kind of and lick her clit and flick it around on the tip of my tongue whilst trying to located her gspot with my fingers. Once I find it its just a case of rubbing and licking which does get confusing a little like patting your belly and rubbing ur head. Anyway when she starts to climax I use my hands to hold her hips and continue licking. After a few moments she usually starts to wriggle and squirm so I just keep her firmly in place with my hands on her hips and continue, I always try to make her climax twice but sometimes it works sometimes she just wriggles and shivers insanely so maybe have your boyfriend try that.

If you are not yet married ,girl, please do not have sex. Stop doing crazy things with boys or else You destroy yourself.

Well, I listen to the woman's moaning and watch her expressions. It is always harder for a guy because of the anatomy. There has to be one time or another, even if it is brief that he hit the right spot. Maybe then you can let him know so he knows where to go. He may just get caught up in his on pleasure of him giving oral instead of if him hitting the right place.

Ask him to stop being nervous and to man up.

Have him pay more attention to your clit and to finger you at the same time, to blow hot air from his mouth on it, to move his tongue in circular motions, to suck your clit hard but not to hard from time to time.

Tell him to take his time and relax.

Ask him to look it up on the internet, you know, read about how to do it, maybe get some toys to help it move along, like a vibrator. You could tell him to get into it more, do it deeper, harder, faster, like that. Have him watch a video about it?

Some girls can't reach orgasm from just oral sex, have you been able to reach it through just oral before? I know I need to be getting it pretty hard and rough to reach orgasm because I need him to go as deep and put as much pressure as he can, some guys can't do that with oral as the tongue is too soft and tender, My boyfriend has never made me reach orgasm during oral but I know all my friends' boyfriends do.

If this girl really likes you, she might be waiting on you. So my advice is to do some mellow flirting just to make sure really does like you. From there take the direct approach. Just do it.