Is sex an important component of a relationship?

If you love him, stay and fight the good fight. If it's too much, then leave gracefully.

Maybe you should consider yourself lucky. If he doesn't cum, at least he will be able to perform long enough to make you cum. Many girls get the short end of sex because the guy cums and he's done before she is even getting close. I sugest you enjoy the situation and give some serious consideration to Miss Shepard's answer, perhaps a slight reduction in the masturbation will lead to a great sex life for both of you.

I've never heard of such a condition. I have heard that if you masturbate too much in the wrong way, that will happen. Have you tried Oral Sex?

For me, sex is an extremely important part of a relationship. As such, I refuse to stay in a relationship that isn't at least somewhat sexually satisfying. The question is, can you be satisfied by this? Some people could.

I would further investigate the condition that causes him to need masturbation to come. Chances are that he is simply conditioned to come a certain way. With time and effort, you can work around that. Since he is presumably fairly new to sex, it might also be a lack of patience. Try this:
Tie him up and masturbate in front of him. Let him get really, really excited. Once he is really cranked up, blow him for a bit. Get him to the point that he would normally masturbate.
Stop.
Now crank him up again. Be sexy, be teasing (like I said, jacking off in front of him when he can't touch you is wonderfully powerful). Force him to lick your pussy and tongue your ass. Let him beg a little. Suck his cock to the point he can't hardly stand it. then stop again. Repeat a few more times and cut him loose and let him finish.

He might come before you get done and that is fine too

Now. did you have fun? Was it a good time for you? If so, continue on. People capable of learning sexual stimulation and I have a hunch that your boyfriend simply learned very high stimulation masturbation. That can be unlearned but it will require some effort.

Good luck.

I've never heard of his situation, but my sisters ex boyfriend had a similar problem. He masturbated a LOT and had never had sex, so he was used to how he did it. My sister couldn't make him cum, so she told him not to masturbate for a few days and this worked.

One problem could be that he is used to how it feels when he masturbates or maybe he does it too much.
Tell him not to for a few days. Then when you have sex, he may be more likely to cum.
Create more antisipation too! Make him want you really really bad.

Sex is a vital component to a healthy relationship! Relationships are about meeting each other's needs in many areas. If the two of you aren't meeting those needs for each other in the bedroom, the relationship will fail. I also have a hard time understanding how if he can have sex, how is it impossible for him to cum through sex? I agree with left hand on this one. It sounds like more practice is needed! (darn those mental blocks) If you like what he said, there are other things to do to get to that bedroom scene. When planning an evening later together, start earlier in the night with bold comments to get him revved up and looking forward to later. Like out of the blue, tell him you can't wait to watch him take his shirt off (well that's a mild one, but you get the idea). Tell him exactly what you want to do to him later. Throwing out those kinds of comments do work. and if you like the idea of teasing him, but feel that might be awkward, there are all kinds of websites and online tutorials for stripping for your man, giving him a lap dance. And the great thing is you can practice those by yourself, which boosts your confidence, and baby girl your gonna need confidence to help him work thru this. I know you might be feeling insecure about this, but don't let him see this in you.

To answer your last question first; YES most definitely your sex life can cause you to leave a person you love. There was a time when people (especially women) stayed with a mate note matter what life was like. You just lived a miserable life yourself. Today is different and if things are that bad it splitsville.

As far as your boyfriends condition? When a guy climaxes he cums. The area around the head of the penis is the sensitive part and stimulation by whatever his hand, your hand, your mouth, your vagina would give him the same result in the end. Possibly it is not a condition, but maybe he is still a bit freaky about having sex. I assume you are saying you are the first he has tried to have sex with? You did not mention how old you guys are or if it is a first for the both of you. If your answer was young and yes our firsts, he could be very nervous about it. Are you able to get him erect or does he have to do it?

If you guys are new at this try just getting naked together and do some light kissing and rubbing your bodies together until the both of you are quite comfortable with the situation, then start playing with each other and I'm betting before the evening is over he will have everything working just fine! GOOD LUCK as it sounds as though you have a great guy and I hope all works out good for the both of you.