girls you see I was wondering if you think of a guy as cool if he has had sex with many girls and what do you think of the guy who is still a virgin. which one do you prefer and why
The Virgin might not be "as good" in terms of endurance or technique, but personally I find it kind of cute and intriguing when a guy is nervous about being a virgin. Of course, I've never actually been with one. However, I wouldn't be opposed!
The guy who is definitely not a virgin will PROBABLY have some technique, and be a bit more skilled. But with this guy there is the fear of being compared to other girls, and also there is always the STI scare. (Even with a condom, it's still something to consider).
Personally, I've only ever been with guys who have "gotten around".
Okay I definitely wouldn't think of a guy that has had multiple partners as cool. As for the guys that is still a virgin, I think that its great that he's not just rushing into things with some random girl he has no connection or feelings for. Ultimately, the only things I care about in regards to sexual history is that the guy has been safe, tested and has a clean bill of health. that being said, I do prefer not being with a virgin, as I would hate it if he regretted it later.
It all depends if the guy who has had sex with multiple girls just doe's it because he can get them, then no I don't find that cool or attractive what so ever. I wouldn't want to sleep with him because I don't know the girls he's been with, and who they have been with. If he was dating them, and thought he loved them then it's more acceptable.
It's hard to find a guy who is still a virgin these days, and to me that's really cool. It's harder on the guy who is a virgin, like if all his friends aren't and they tease him. But it's his choice to do what he wants, you don't have to have sex with a million girls to feel cool.
I don't really care personally because if you really care about how much your guy is getting you shouldn't even be asking this. and if a guy has had a lot of sex and brags then you know he is bad news but if he is just kinda shy about it you have no reason to worry!
It hard to picture a guy who has had a lot of sex and is shy about I don't think there is any guy who had a lot of sex and is shy about it. and secondly what do you what a girl who has had a lot of sex and what do you about a guy who is a virgin - 3 months ago
But what guy would be offended to be called that.?! : )
I met a 31 year old guy who told me that he had been with 30+ girls but had said that he was never in any one-night stands and had only one, long-lasting relationship of 4 years. By doing some quick math I figured that all of the other "relationships" he had were therefore short-lived and there was definitely something missing in the commitment arena. And unless he was always meeting women and having sex with them on at least a tri-monthly basis, he had to have a few one-night stands thrown in there or his number was way too high. And personally, I don't know too many guys, unless they were PLAYERS that were that lucky with meeting and picking-up quality women and then dropping them every couple of months. He had to have real game or had been just hanging around a bunch of sleazy women.
I just figured him for a guy that was not into the same dating style as I was and left him at that.
Well out of the 2 I'd probably pick the the one that has had sex with a lot, because I really enjoy sex, so I wouldn't want someone that has NO idea what he's doing.
So anyways, what I think about a guy who's had sex with a lot of girls. I think they are fun to toys with. I actually ended up spending the last 3 1/2 years of my life with one. Before we started dating exclusively, he had slept with over 100 chicks. When I first started sleeping with him I liked the idea that he was easy, no strings attached. And then somehow, we both got attached. I tamed the wild beast, woo hoo, me. But on a serious note, it still bugs me sometimes just how many people he has slept with, and the fact that like 1/4 of the chicks I know he has slept with. I would say don't go for sleeping with a lot, because even if you are happy with someone in the end, it will really bother her. Don't hold back all together, get some experience, just be conscious and don't let your number get too high.
Then what do you think of a girl who have had sex with a lot of boys - 3 months ago
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Well, I don't think differently of girls or guys that have had sex with a lot of people. I think each person is allowed to experience what they want. One is not better or cooler than the other for sleeping with a lot of people. I haven't slept with many, but the ones I have slept with I've slept with A LOT. So, I can't say much about people that really enjoy sex, some just like having more partners. - 3 months ago
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But everyone that experiences those things should just keep in mind that one day they are going to want to settle down and the number of people you've slept with will bother them at some point, some how. - 3 months ago
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