And there's nothing wrong with that. I like going out and doing things, watching movies, taking walks, talking, etc. But that doesn't mean that the very second I'm back in the safety of my house I don't want a quickie to hold me over till that night, when hopefully something else will happen. Its a natural, genetic demand to procreate or show love for someone.
Even if a guy loves you. He wants to F you because He loves you. He wants to be close to you as possible. and for a guy. the best way for that to happen is to have sex.
This is the best way for a guy to express his love for his girlfriend. It is one of the things that all men know how to do. and that should make there girls feel good.
And if he just does a girl at a party for example. he probably doesn't love her. if he just met her. he's pretty much. just bored. and wants to have fun.
And go ahead and call us whatever. but it is what it is.
And I haven't had sex, I'm 19, and I've never had a girlfriend. Just so you know.
I can't speak for my gender on whole, but I for one am not all about sex. Sure, I'm young and have a very big libido, but I never seek out women purely for sex alone. Sexual thoughts cross my mind often, but I would rather have a meaningful relationship, and I'm sure a lot of guys feel the same way. It also depends on the guy, I think. Some are all about it, others aren't. Judging by your age, a lot of the guys in your grade are going to be crazy about sex, and some aren't. I guess it just depends on their maturity levels.
The short answer to the short question is not in my experience. Younger lads tend to be more sex-orientated because most of them haven't experienced it yet. But remember, a relationship can't survive on sex alone so if all men wanted was sex no one woud be in a relationship.
Some guys do seek certain women out just for sex but then so do some women!
It's all about getting to know someone and building up a mutual respect so that the sex is that bit more special
That said, it's perfectly fine in my opinion to have sex with whoever you want and whenever you want as long as you are prepared for any consequences such as the man not being interested anymore
It would be completely unfair to generalize all guys with a statement like this. SOME guys, at specific points in their lives -- likely young guys -- are all about sex. However, I believe there comes a point in every man's life where he grows up and realizes that there is more to life, both relationship-wise and otherwise. At that point, sex isn't the only thing he wants.
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