Is it a good or bad thing if ur girl is a virgin?

Its alright. Not a reason to not be with someone.

It's always a very good thing when a girl can say she's a virgin and she's not married yet. That's something that should NEVER be looked down on. To many guys that'd be the biggest gift his wife could ever give him when they get married. Not everyone is into the help yourself or drive trough sex game, and when the day comes that they are, this world is going to be in bad shape. But if a girl is a virgin and going with a guy that's very experienced then I'd say she probably won't be staying a virgin much longer or her relationship won't. If she wanted to remain a virgin then I'd say it's probably a bad thing, but if she was planning on losing her virginity as soon as she could ,then to her that'd be a good thing. It all has to do with what SHE wants of thinks is good or bad, but either way that has nothing to do with what is right or wrong.

i guess if the guy is a virgin too then it's alright because both of you will be inexperienced

Hi, in your age group I think that it's a good thing. It's ok to wait until your sure the guy your with loves you. Now there is also nothing wrong with a girl in that age group that is not a virgin. She may have had been in love and lost her virginity to him. Each person has their own story of why,when & with whom. In my age group no way do I want a virgin,I'm at the point where I would like the experienced girl