Girls does size really matter?

if your having trouble telling how to do you, like if he isn't listening just say that you will be more open to sex if he is more careful not to put it in too far.

It doesn't have to hurt, but if he's on the larger size it may be uncomfortable if you're rushing it. My husband is on the larger size, but when we first had sex (we were both virgins) it hurt very little because we had lots of foreplay. The key is to take it slowly, be very patient (and tell him that you need him to go slowly ,and will accept nothing else), use lots of appropriate lubrication, and you lead the way. Woman on top (cowgirl) might be a good position to try as you will be able to have control of the situation (not that you always have to have control in sex, but for times when pain might be involved it's a good idea to lead the way) and it will also help open you up.

So, no, it doesn't have to hurt. It usually does because people tend to rush it, but it doesn't have to be that way.

Yeah hun, I think maybe get yourself some lube and try out different positions too.
I've been with guys who were really big as well as guys who were very small, and to be honest, the best for me has ALWAYS come from guys who were just average size.
Like you know, too big can be quite uncomfortable and tends to take the spontaneity out of it when you have to be very "position specific". The guys I've been with who were very big seemed to prefer sex in positions that were the least comfortable or enjoyable for me too. I'm not sure why to be honest, I guess I never asked? And as your friend said, too small doesn't really offer very much sensation.
Do you mind me asking how long you've been having sex? In any case, I really doubt it will always hurt you if you just find what works, and I'm sure you will. I'd say just experiment and mix it up a bit until the two of you find your groove with it all.
Good luck.
:)

I would think that if you were very comfortable with your boyfriend while having sex that you would naturally open up to take him very comfortably. If he is really long it might be that he is going in too far and that is causing the discomfort. Lubes help also

i've been thinking the same question.cause even though I haven't had sex yet, I have seen my boyfriends penis and it looks like it would hurt.so I'm a little scared of that.but I think Ashewark .u should try different positions.

Size definitely matters if it is causing you pain! Have you two tried using lube at all to help? You could also engage in more foreplay and teasing to get you more aroused, since that can also help. Some people just aren't physically compatible, but definitely try out some variations to see if you can make it better before deciding that.

Is it that he is too long or too thick? Trying out different sex positions can make a really big difference since they allow different levels of penetration and control for the two people. If it hurts in one position, then another one that allows you to have more control might be better.