well everyone is different I think. for some friends of mine it didn't hurt at all but they were already doing other things sexually so that might be one reason. but if you are very tensed and if your hymen is still intact the chances of it hurting is likely. but if you do things like riding bike, horse riding and obviously masturbating, it shouldn't really hurt at all. but just remember to relax and if you do find a guy you want to make love to. he will be gentle.
For me it hurt, but maybe because I was very tight and couldn't relax. I started bleeding A LOT! and bled everywhere on the guy and his sheets of bed. I had to take the shower right away. But it wasn't pleasure for both of us. He bled too. But I was upset for very long because I expected emotional support from him, but he just distanced himself. I'm still depressed cause I f***in loved him and he played with me I guess. But do it with someone who loves you! then you'll have no pain, you'll just naturally be comfortable ;))
alright. you know what the hymen is right? its a covering of the vagina that protects it until you lose your virginity. feeling THAT break is what hurts, a one time thing, not the actual sex act itself. I sorta engured that paing (sorry this is gonna be gross) because when I was twelve I got my first yeat infection aand I had to use a douche, and that was what broke my hymen and it hurt. you don't knwo, you may have broken it alraeayd if youve used tampons, or even by falling you may have broken it already. I don't know. don't be scared, if anything you NEED to be relaxed when you have sex, and don't have it until you're ready -- its a gut instinct that you cannot doubt.
It won't hurt that much. Try fitting 3 fingers in your vagina, if you can try more. Penis' arnt that big, don't worry. Also if it does hurt I'm sure the guy will be comforting.
Unlike the other girls. It didn't hurt for me. But my first time was also with a guy that was kind of on the small size. Just don't think the first time is going to be the best time of your life. Its more fun once you've done it a few times and are comfterable with it.
For me it hurt a lot, but my boyfriend was great. He went slow and stopped a lot and gave me a million kisses. I cried the whole time. lol. I was expecting to bleed so we put a towel under us the first time we did it, but either I didn't or it was too little to notice.
He's so adorable too. He bought "Her Pleasure" condoms, which are ribbed, so I'm not sure if that helped, hahah, but it was the thought that counts.
To any first timers- Get condoms with extra lube, it will help soften the blows. :P
Yeah, it hurt for me. The guy was really big and I don't think he cared enough about me to take it easy. The whole thing sucked. It's been a lot better since then.
It wasn't agony. Just uncomfortable and it felt uncomfortable for a day or two afterwards. I worried myself sick beforehand thinking it would hurt really badly but it didn't.
I've had friends say it does, and some say it doesn't. I'm a virgin, so I obviously wouldn't be asking this question if I knew. I was just wondering...
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I honestly don't have any pick-up lines really, I may flirt a little to see if the girl flirts back, and I'll then just ask if she wants to do something with me on the weekend.
How do they typically respond?
It depends, sometimes they'll flirt back then turn me down, usually though they flirt back and we end up dating
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