I've seen a few other questions on this topic, but not exactly what I'm feeling. I don't know where my vagina is? Like, I'm afraid to use tampons because I don't know exactly where to put them and I'm afraid that if I ever have sex I won't know where the penis goes and if he's inexperienced too, I'm screwed. I know it's GirlsAskGuys but I need help from other girls, how do I get comfortable touching myself, using tampons, and being with a guy?
I know you need help from girls, but I will cover the guy part, and leave the rest to the girls. Firstly, don't worry about a guy not knowing where the penis goes. They may be inexperienced, but all guys know that much. Talking with guys is just like anyone else. Just be natural and confident. Everything comes with experience. When you start talking and flirting more, you will get used to it. One thing though, didn't you have sex ed in school? When I was about 13, everything was pretty much clear because we were taught about it in school. I also know that girls were then taught about the different parts of the vagina and periods / tampons / pads and so on. Anyway. Hang out with guys more, they are all human, so just when you are around them act normal :)
Indeed. By the time a guy tries to get a girl to have sex with him, even if its his first time, he would have already seen plenty of playboy magazines or plenty of playboy movies to at least know where the holes are. - A month ago
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So I tried to sound more innocent in my question than I actually am. I have a boyfriend and we've done things, but I'm uncomfortable every time. the first time we did anything he couldn't get it in the hole and that's why I'm scared to do other things cause I feel something may be wrong with me. - A month ago
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Of course there is nothing wrong with you. You will have to be a little more specific about the "Couldn't get it in the hole" part though. You mean he just couldn't get the penis in, or it was uncomfortable / hurt or what? Sorry to sound so intrusive, but some things are just harder to answer without knowing the details. - A month ago
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At first he couldn't get it to stay in [i think he was a bit too excited/eager] and now that he can, it hurts. It's a lot of pressure...which I heard would happen, but we've done it more than once and I want to start enjoying it for the whole time and not just right before he cums. - A month ago
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Well, If the hymen broke, it may still be sore, which may be causing the pain. I remember being told by my girlfriend that her vagina hurt for over a week after the first time we had sex. - A month ago
ok to get yourself to know your body more.just open your legs, get a mirror and look at yourself. the hole is ovious to see. the clitoris ( thing a guy has to touch to turn you on) is at the top, where you open ur flaps, at the top. tampons are hard to use at first. you just have to sit or stand in a comfortable posotion and relax your vagina muscles. and then ya know just read the directions in the box. now with a guy. I would say don't have sex with him if you really aren't ready. cause I'm still a virgin and I'm not ready fot sex yet. I herd that it herts bad and tears yout vagina hole openig! ( the hymen) ooww so I'm fine waitng you should be ok with it too. never let a guy presure you into doing something you don't want to do. go to gurl.com they give you a lot of information!
ok, sit on the toilet, take a mirror and look at your genitals. do you see the pinkish flap of skin? that is your clitoris, or your sex organ. It triggers orgasms if you rub it in a soft, circular motion. Do you see the hole under it? that is your vagina. I'm pretty sure you're gonna learn about it in sex ed, it says your under 18. The guy will most likely know, he has to take sex ed too!
ps. don't use tampons yet, if you are going to a swim party or somehing, take a look at your mom's tampon box, it will have a detailed instructional guide that shows the vagina also. Then you can put in the tampon. Just use the heavy-duty pads for now.
I've had sex ed and I'm almost out of the under 18 age group...it's just different when you have to go for it yourself than when you see it on a diagram or something. - A month ago
well considering that you are still young you have no worries. your opening of your vagina is below the urethral, where your urine comes from. link it explains with pictures!
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I usually start off with a joke. I use comedy as an ice breaker. If I'm nervous that's all I'll do. If not I just strike up a conversation. I'm good at both.
How do they typically respond?
They talk back. Half the time I get to take them on a date.
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