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Do women like it "rough"?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: Over a year ago
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Hard Thrusting, Pulling Hair, Spanking Ass, Dirty talking, The man grabbing and taking control.

lol..."take the bull by the thorns and have your way with it"

Why do you like/not like it rough?

And, what would you prefer,
- slow casual sweet sex ?
- OR hard, rough...and everything I described earlier?


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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    Over a year ago
    Love rough sex and the guy in control

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    Over a year ago
    i like it when the guy takes control and somtimes rought is good but I also think that slow and sweet is also good! :)

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  • Freaky-T
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    Over a year ago
    rough

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  • seusslanding
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    Over a year ago
    Rough sex yes please!
    Unless I'm in a slow mood. It really depends.
    If there's a candle lit dinner and romantic stuff involved beforehand then slow, but any other time ROUGH!

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  • Adrasteia
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    Over a year ago
    I definitely love it when the guy takes control, no matter if the sex is rough or slow, huge turn-on.
    I actually like to vary between the rough stuff and slow & intense (not so much sweet) to build things up nicely ^^

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  • FxcknBbyCaKeS
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    Over a year ago
    I Perfer It Rough Because I Can Take The Dick Nd It Pleases Me , And Dirty Talking Is Evan Better

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  • pinky92
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    Over a year ago
    rough.

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  • michiluv
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    Over a year ago
    Majority of the time rough sex is better like all you said plus more but as for make up sex I think sweeter is better.

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  • tbng910313
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    Over a year ago
    Most woman like it rough and very much wanting the man to be in control of it,but as for other woman they like it slow and passionate because they like to feel where the pleasure is going

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    Over a year ago
    I like both. But I also like somewhere in the middle. Like slow and sweet, but also I wouldn't mind like bursts of excitement. No matter what sex it is, I like my hair to be pulled, being man handled, talking dirty, and spanking. It's so fun and really doesn't hurt :)

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    Over a year ago
    i love both... I love slow sweet sex. but I love when my baby takes control its a major turn on to me.. its so sexy hehe... I love when he pulls my hair.. and spanks me.. and thrusts so hard .

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    Over a year ago
    All of the above. I love slow sweet love making as much as I love hard rough sex. I like a good balance of both. Honestly I love dirty talk probably more than a lot of girls. Its so weird because I am not naturally submissive in my daily life AT ALL but when the panties hit the floor its like I love to be degraded verbally. Its so freakin hot! I like all kinds of dirty talk it just makes things seem nastier, hotter. Name calling is my favorite. :)

    Love hair pulling, especially when I'm getting f***ed doggy style and the Guy reaches up and yanks my head back and slaps my ass. That's like pure heaven right there ha ha

    Spitting is okay sometimes I guess.

    I have a nice round ass and I love to show it off so it's perfect for spanking. The guy I'm sleeping with is pretty much obsessed with my butt and he loves spanking me.

    I like submission I guess. My ex boyfriend wanted to try walking me on a leash around his place and he would yank it a little and slap me hard in the face if I didn't crawl the right way or something like that. I love that kind of stuff.

    If a Guy I really like wants to treat me like a whore off the street in bed sometimes then I certainly won't complain. I love it. :)

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  • mirilouisiana
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    Over a year ago
    i like both hard and soft, but love getting my hair pulled and getting spanked so rough more. hard thrusting can be painful in certain situations but its still good too

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    Over a year ago
    I LOVE being dominated. Spanking, dirty talk, the whole nine yards.

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  • mandi92
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    Over a year ago
    omg I love it rough! I love when I guy holds my arms above my head and just pounds me but I'm not a fan of the dirty talk or the spanking pulling hair is good to an extent

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    Over a year ago
    Yes. I like it rough, and I would prefer it rough over slow the majority of times.

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  • Ashleyreep
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    Over a year ago
    Great question. I personally would love it hard and rough. There is just something about a guy taking all control and "taking what is rightfully his." It's so hot. Slow casual sweet sex is good maybe for the first timers, but I want it rough. There are some girls out there who wouldn't like it rough, but there are also a lot of girls who would love it rough.

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      I find it completely true too... lol
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      "taking what is rightfully his".....i love that quote lol
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    Anonymous User
    Over a year ago
    I LOVE LOVE LOVE it when a guy takes control of me. Personally, I wouldn't like my hair pulled that much, but I'd LOVE everything else. Also a little bit of teasing would be good(;

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      One time, my boyfriend was going down on me and took his time. He'd kiss me on my inner thigh and then come back up and kiss my lips. It made me want him so bad!
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Well its not really pulling the hair out lol...more like a wee tug or pull.
      ....also you mentioned "teasing"....any specific moments or moves you had in mind?
  • soslin711
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    Over a year ago
    I like all of that. As long as you're not trying to like pull my hair out! haha. I like it because it's almost animal-like, as if the guy just couldn't control himself with me so he just unleashes on me. lol BUT slow sweet sex is also good. I believe there's a certain time and place for each.

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    Over a year ago
    I think a combination of rough with everything you described (apart from the hair pulling and spanking and "some" dirty talking) and soft makes for great sex.= passionate I guess

    other times I would be in the mood for rough and than sometimes soft., so it depends

    i I do not like the hair pulling and ass slapping-- that's just so vulgur to me personally


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  • mdimino1359
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    Over a year ago
    for my first time I wanted the whole candles, rose petals thing but it ended up being total opposite. we were at a party and the whole night he would just come up and whisper in my ear how badly he wanted me and talk dirty and I'd go to him and do it and so on and so forth. anyway, after a while he just grabbed me and pulled me upstairs. I started to strip and from then on it was the definition of rough. I pulled his hair, dug my nails in his bak, he was on top, there was spiting and moaning, just intense veverythihng, personally I thinkk it was amazing I don't know I prob sound like a slut right now but that's just what I like.

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  • BoneyMary
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    Over a year ago
    For most girls MY age and from about 16-20 (well the girls that I know anyway) we like it hard, no pulling hair or spanking or dirty talking, maybe a little whisper here and there and taking control, maybe holding her wrists together above her head.. Lots of foreplay and make sure she really wants it.. Girls like taking control sometimes, and like being taken control of others.. we don't go over the top though and we don't expect you to.. :)

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  • beans
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    Over a year ago
    I'm not into pain at all, but I'm sure a lot of people are, and as long as you don't feel threathened by your partner, it will be enjoyable for both. I think you gotta have this certain level of trust for BDSM.

    I prefer a progression of things, like starting off completely innocently and then slowly getting more erotically rough over time...what I mean by erotically rough is like playful, light spanking, biting, bondage, etc.

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What Guys Said

  • Don_Garb
    1102  
    Over a year ago
    My girlfriend does not like any kind of rough at all. Since I don't do anything rough, as that is completely alien to me, she often commends me on what I find I am. She says most of her girlfriends complain about rough guys and would love to have a guy like me.

    I think if you're a guy and you presume all women love it rough, you are going to be with some women once and never again. If you're sensual to a woman who likes it rough, she might have you back. If you're rough to a woman that hates it, you will never be invited back. If you try it rough for the first time at the outset, thinking that is the best choice, then you're stupid.

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  • chettah-two
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    Over a year ago
    As I'm growing I've gone to realise that EVERY girl loves it rough... They want you to be animal like, i.e let your passions take over...lol.

    Funny how guys and girls are different in the way of their thinking, behaviour, etc...but when it comes to sex we are completely in tune with each other.. i.e we both get pleasure from the pleasuring the other...
    My point is don't hold back.. if you wanna grab her ass, spank her, bite her nipples; don't think she might not like it... because if you love it, she will love it aswell..

    Basically what it all goes down to is CONFIDENCE!

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Even with those, once they get to relax.. and a smile, they love it too...

      But I see you like a bit of roughness aswell..xD, your Boyfriend must love u.....
    • Over a year ago
      I personally agree, however unfortunately there are plenty of girls that would not like it at all if you spanked or bit her...they just can't let go and relax and they put up this wall. Sad really. All that stuff sounds amazing to me lol.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Well said mate
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    Anonymous User
    Over a year ago
    my girlfriend likes it hard... but I don't know if she would like hair pullin and sh*t...

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