I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm afraid how its going to feel, I really thinks its going to hurt. Can some one tell me how it supposed to feel and how I'm suppose to react
Humans don't come with instruction books. It might well hurt, physically, but that might mean that you're going too fast.
It might well hurt the most emotionally, at which point all the rest of us can say is "join the club." That's the pain I'd be most concerned about. Any physical pain you can avoid simply by stopping. The emotional complications, much less so.
You might react with overwhelming feelings of joy, shame, guilt, passion, attachment or any combination of them. No tellin.'
Actually, that's not entirely true. The more work - yeah: WORK- you put into a relationship before you jump each other's bones, the more likely the experience will be a satisfying one.
Until then, learn to be your own "best friend." And if it's not right, don't go there with him, until it feels right.
If his dick is huge ass banger then you are screwed. But, it depends. It will only hurt if your hymen hasn't been "popped". But like I said its different for every person. Just make sure he does a solid foreplay.
The reason it hurts is because your hymen may be coving some of your vaginal entrance. Take things really slowly. Make sure he is aware of your nervousness and make sure he gets you really aroused. He can work you up into such an aroused state that you still might feel a little pain, but the pleasure can outweigh it completely.
Have you ever had a dildo inside of you? If so then you hymen may already be broken or never have been intact in the first place (it isn't in all women). If that is the case then you are probably more apt to feel the pleasure than the pain.
It really depends but something weird is the first time I had sex I was scared because all of my friends told me it may hurt a little and it would be bloody because he would pop your cherry but the first time I had sex that never happened and I've been having sex for the past 6 years and I never bled during sex
It hurt me, it might hurt you. There's more of a chance of it hurting if he has a big penis. But it's one of those things that you just get out of the way. And if it does hurt you can think about how every time you have sex after that will be better. Because it will be, really. My first time sucked, but if that's what I had to do to have the sex I've had since I would do it a thousand times.
it didn't hurt me and it didn't hurt any of my friends I only know one girl who thought it was painfull so it really depends on the person. it doesn't feel that good the first time you will probally think to your self is that what all the fuss is about lol but after awhile it gets good. everyones different so whatever comes natural(reaction) to you is normal.
Well really it depends on the guy. Does he know your a virgin? If he doesn't it's really important for you to let him know. Tell him to be easy on you, and to not rush in (no matter how horny he gets, this is why you really need to trust him). Losing your virginity hurts, you can't avoid that, but its only for about 4-5 seconds, then you feel an immense amount of pleasure and you'll want him to give you more. Be yourself and don't be scared, if you really love him just aim for the pleasure and forget the pain. If you think you're not ready yet, don't rush! :)
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