I love having sex with my Boyfriend and I'm the girl who likes to do really kinky stuff but sometimes I can't due to my boyfriend getting to excited and blowing to quick.
do you have any pointers on how I can help him? because he knows he cums to quick as well so yeah HELP!
As he is getting ready to "blow" as you say, stop stroking him or having him pump. THen have him breath in deeply and move the energy from his sex chakra up his spine to his head and back down to his belly. By the way this is some of the process you can take for male multiple orgasm.
You can also push down on his million dollar spot (between his scrotum and anus) right before he gets ready to ejaculate. Again, stop all stroking or anything else to his penis.
Well based on your age, I take it that he is young. The nervous system is very fast and he does not have much control at his age. He will slow down and have more control when he gets older. You might tell him, however, to press the top of the penis to help him not climax.
Dr. Drew has indicated many times that a great exercise for guys trying to build stamina is to masturbate. While they are doing this, when they feel the climax about to occur, they need to stop. Just go hands off, and turn off whatever the stimuli was. Then, once that feeling pass, repeat. And repeat, and repeat, etc.
After awhile, this should help create more stamina and control for him.
I don't think Dr Drew ever tried that on himself when he was younger. It can result in a very painful pressure buildup. We used to figuratively call it blue balls. The only thing that worked for me was having actual sex more frequently, so that the sensations become less overpowering. Masturbation doesn't very well simulate the feel of a real woman. - 4 months ago
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It's not about the feel, it's about developing a tolerance to sensation. This doesn't cause blue balls. And obviously after a few times you should release. - 4 months ago
If all else fails, he could put on two condoms; this will help decrease the friction so he won't feel as much as he normally would with one or none, and it'll take him longer to orgasm.
You might want to be careful about using two condoms. Condoms do take away some of the feeling for a guy, and it will help control his speed, but at the same time, you're running a very high risk of rupturing the condoms. If there are any air bubbles, or places where they can cause friction, it can burst VERY easily. One condom is MUCH better and safer than two. - 4 months ago
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