Turn ons: -tease(notes, text, play with him, sexual innuendos) -talking dirty -wearing something skimpy (tease0 -masturbate in front of him.HUGE! -be loud in bed, and if you don't know how, baby steps, but DO IT(make mmmm noises when bj!)
Turn offs: -non sexual, not into pleasing your man -make excuses for no sex -call him all the time and be needy -make other people and things more of a priority
talking dirty is a big turn on for me. Taking the initiative to have sex is a turn on, and to be spontaneous. Turn offs are when we have had sex, to say that we need to talk! It then just ruined the moment. or if we are in the middle of it and she something is bothering her and we never talked about it.