Why do guys like having sex by tying women up?

When I tie her up, it isn't about me. It's all about her. I am pleasing her in any and every way I can imagine. She tends to be controlling in the real world and this gives her an opportunity to not be in control and let whatever I do to please her happen.

It's clear no one here really has any significant understanding of DS. It's not a game, it's a lifestyle. Guys who "like having sex by tying women up" are bored frat boys. Guys and girls who understand domination and submission for what it really is are sharing an erotic and sensual experience that may include sex, but goes well beyond it in significance. The trust given and trust received is a deep connection between two people. When I tie up a sub, she's not just a woman being tied up, she's a human being who willingly submits herself to my will, places herself totally under my care, and surrenders herself to be used for my pleasure. I, in turn, I accept full responsibility for her well being, her safety, her stimulation, her behavior, and her pleasure for the duration of the time she is under my care. If that doesn't make any sense to you, just move on. You'll never get it. If it does, there are safe ways to learn more. I don't think I can link to any sites here, but message me if you want a link.

The reasons are probably different for different guys.

For me, I like the idea because I just find it really kinky. I wouldn't say I'm really into the whole domination psychology, and I'm definitely not a control freak. I know that a lot of people like the whole master and slave roleplaying stuff, but I don't think that the only reason why people like bondage. At least that's not why I like it.

I think it's just a really big turn-on to see a girl completely helpless, exposed and vulnerable. It's a turn-on knowing that she would surrender herself to me, that she is willing to be my play thing.

She's a beautiful fairy willing to fall right into my trap.

Rope also looks really sexy pressed against her soft body. It squeezes and hugs her tenderness. It just looks really nice.

I find it just really pointless Its not my intentions to make her suffer

I think it's dumb personally. But its a form of domination.

Power trip, the control is a turn on.

Though on the other hand, the girl is supposed to get turned on by the lack of control too...

It's the adult version of cowboys and indians! It is a game guys and girls sometimes like to play. Give it a try it is fun and with so many variations "OOH BOY"

well I like being tied up because I CAN'T do anything to please him..which means I don't t have to worry about how to please him for a few moments...not into the violent or degrading stuff ..just stretched put with my hands tied- it also enhances al the physical feelings where he caresses me is like really intense when I'm tied up & it feels amazing & soo intriguing