Can you orgasm from a lapdance by a stripper at a strip club?

Rarely; it's very hard. (Pun intended).

LOL - no seriously, it's not common. She has to be grinding you like hell, and she has to be very, very good. No, I do not consider it cheating, (if all the clothes are on). And I do not go to the clubs where the clothes are not on... I have little girls, I need to be able to look them in the eyes in the morning, and their momma, too.

Hope this helps.

I could if she did a good job and was actually grinding on my cockles, not just dancing sexy in front of me. I orgasm a lot faster from slow, intimate sex than I do from a hard screw session.

no

It'd take a hell of a lot of grinding.

I can't, and I don't think a lot of guys could; but I'm sure most of them (including myself) would love to be able to.

It's pretty hot if a girl can "make" me orgasm just from dancing on me.

Now, as far as that being cheating?

Common; enough with this cheating business.

If we don't orgasm, it's not cheating.

If we do orgasm, and an other woman isn't giving us a blowjob, handjob, having sex with us, or we're drugged (not drunk) or otherwise unconscious or unable to act (i.e. she ties us up in our sleep and jerks us off); then it's not cheating.

The key element to cheating is "intent". If I want to have sex with an other woman, and I go ahead and do so; well then, what more of a definition for cheating do you want?

Even if a guy were to actually get off from a lapdance that a stripper gave him, like on the off chance that would actually happen; it's not called cheating; it's called an awesome lapdance/stripper.

A guy can orgasm if he's a pathetic14 year old virgin boy who is oversensitive and has likely never seen a woman in his life.

Seriously man, who gets off from a simple dry hump with a lap dance? Who? If the guy can get off from lap dance then he probably has no staying power in bed either. Seriously! As to the question of if he's cheating. Only if he knew he'd get off right from the beginning. Which I doubt. I think you can forgive him if he gets off from something like that as I am sure it was an accident and is frankly already embarrassing enough as it fucking is. He's likely to feel like a loser already. Now if he keeps going for more lap dances after he already accidentally found out he'd come from it, then yes, at that point I think it's fair to say that not only is he pathetic, but he's also a cheater.

There. How does that grab you. Do you think that sounds like a fair set of rules?

Nah .. would be almost impossible for me to come in that way... I would get aroused but not to the point of having an orgasm

Depends on how well the stripper does her job.

i don't orgasm from dry humping so I would assume that a strange stripper won't get me off

if the lap dance involved touching then I would say it is cheating. if he orgamsed from the show then it is like p*rn. But the question is .. does he go for these places regularly or was it just once that happened when his buddies pressured him?

As a female,I do not consider this cheating.I would rather the guy be honest with me,tell me he's going to a strip club,probably going to get a lap dance.Whether he c*ms or not,eh,I imagine it isn't possible for most males.
In my definition,cheating would be kissing,licking/sucking,f*cking,fingering/handjob,oral sex(receive or give),or being too intimate.It also differs by person and by your partners boundaries.I would be OK with my guy getting a lapdance( I just wouldn't want it to be a regularl thing-strip club hopping)