we actually want to do it to each other at the same time,but its my first time. I'm really self-conscious about my large inner labia.will he think it looks gross?
Update: he likes doing things in the light because he likes to see my face.i already know he will want lots of light! but I'm sure everyone is right.its actually not that bad(or long).i just have issues.lol 4 months ago
As Bobby Mcferrin used to sing, "Don't worry, be happy."
I agree with Cntryqt1989, too many girls are way too self conscious about their appearance. Life is stressful as it is so don't add to it by worrying about things that can not be changed and do not really matter in the grand scheme of life.
You and your boyfriend want to please each other and not compare notes nor will any awards be handed out for performance and/or looks.
Of course 69 is the best way and who has the lights turned up that bright. I'm sure he'll be fine we are all self conscious about our bodies. Don't think about it too much! Just enjoy & have fun!
I am sure you will both enjoy it. He may think that your large libia is not very pretty looking, but it may be sexy for him , and he will most probably get carried away.
Also, first time may not be the best time, but will be a memorable experience.
He doesn't have to see it. you can have oral sex with the lights off and just say that you feel more comfortable like that.or you can just tell him that you are very shy and that you don't think he will like it. guys like it when girls are honest like that with them. if you tell him that you are embarrassed of what it looks like then he will prob. say I don't care lets just do it. after that he can't start and then not finish so he will have to continue if he really likes you. Its better to be honest and just tell him that you think its kinda weird down there and I'm sure he will understand. And by the way I'm sure that it is prob. not that bad ne way and you just think it is because. just remember you haven't seen any other labrias right . so you don't know if it is bigger than others. and I'm sure he prob. won't know the difference unless he has been with like hundreds of different women. so don't worry just try somethin see what will happen
Most girl's are usually incredibly self-conscious about what they look like down there, from shaving and what not and having a bush. To your labia, hun, there isn't anything you can change about that. And I really don't think it's going to matter to your boyfriend, just try not to think about it as much.
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