There is this guy that I have been talking to for 5 months. One day we talked about everything, including the fact that I'm still a virgin.
I let it slip that I wanted to sleep with him. It came to the point where we were planning it and he was asking if I wanted candles and he seemed interested cause he kept asking questions about what I've done. A couple of days later, I checked up on him and he said he doesn't think it would be a good idea. I let him know that it would be no strings attached because at the time I was going to move.
Guys, why wouldn't he want to sleep with me? I thought all guys cared about was sex. And I know it's not an attraction thing cause when we met for the first time, the boy couldn't take his eyes off of me.
he honestly wasn't feelin' you. taking in consideration you are a "virgin" he's overwhelmed. He also feels committed by sleeping with you and it's something he's not ready for. f*** him though, I'll sleep with you! lol
If I had to guess, chances are he changed his mind because he knew you were going to move, and he didn't want to end up having feelings for you if he couldn't be near you. Someone might have talked him out of it.
Because sex ISN'T all guys care about; most of them, anyway! You need to have more self-worth about your body. Don't let yourself be treated like a piece of meat. You will regret it later in life!
I agree that most if not all guys think about is sex. I speak for myself here and I don't know about other guys but if I were that guy you are talking about then I would love to take a girl's virginity but only knowing that there will be times to come were we can do it again and again. If I knew that you were a virgin and that it would be just the one time thing and never see you again or at least never sleep with you again then I would be feeling very weirded out by sleeping with you.
artbunker
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
We do, but perhaps he felt he didn't want to take your virginity because he wanted you to share it with someone you could share more than one exerience with? Some guys are senestive in that manner, darling.
Some guys are much deeper than that. Like, when my guy and me got to talking about dildos, he said that they "couldn't take me out to dinner, so why would I even be interested in using one?".. It really surprised me that he believes that in order to have sex, you must be emotionally involved with the person. In love. I mean, maybe he's a romantic, and maybe he has more feelings for you than to just f*** you.
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