First of all you don't got straight to oral sex. and if you know what your doing oral sex does the job much better than kissing and touching.
The best thing is finding her "hot" spots and kissing them and then finding the spot down there playing with it as you make out and kiss her hot spots. might not get you laid but you'll have her into deep breathing fairly quickly.
For me its just being close to the person and kissing them but oral sex is definitely great. However there is ONE thing that gets me more turned on they anything.kissing and lightly sucking on my neck but not enough to leave a mark.it drives me crazy!
I absolutely agree. Oral foreplay is truly the finest. That is, what my lover says to me as he or she touches me or teases me or licks me or whatever.
If you need a clue about what she likes, maybe you should just ask her. Make a game of it, maybe. Give each other points for touching the right spot or saying the right thing and redeem them for something really cool like a homemade dinner, a great sports car, a massage, or even a screaming orgasm.
There's this spot right where your shoulder and neck meet. Kiss that and maybe nibble a little. What ever you do, it's awesome to start sort of slow and light and increase the pressure (mouth, hands, etc) and the tempo
pretty much what the anon user said I really like when my boyfriend breaths down my neck and lightly kisses it for some reason it drives me wild! loL! also when its rough but he pinches my nipples just playing but it gets me really REALLY worked up! lol! mostly its kissing and touching :)
Just thinking about it's getting me hot too! ha ha :) - 4 months ago
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I like it all the more the better. I like to be kisses & held and touched (all over) as well as being talked to. Talking can be a form of foreplay as well.
This might sound crazy but I never get oral from my current lover so I guess it's not top on my list, because I just noticed it was not in my run down of what I like lol. I would love it if all of a sudden he decided he needed to please me that way, but I don't see that happening and I'd rather not have him do something he does not enjoy.
I really liked your answers! Yeah, some guys either don't like the oral or they aren't confident at it because of lack of experience, etc...You know what I mean! :) At any rate, I thought it was interesting that you mentioned talking as a form of foreplay. Maybe you could explain what type of talking works for you? I have never thought about it as foreplay, but I think it would be something cool to use in the future! - 4 months ago
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Yeah I think it's the latter, he is not confident so he does not want to do a poor job of it and feel like a dork. Talking as foreplay is a new idea? I don't think so, I think you don't realize that you even do it lol. OK so I don't want to get removed for this comment so I'll keep it tame "hey honey, oh you are so sexy I can't wait to get you alone, I've been thinking about you all day" With something like this your stimulating that womans mind as well as whatever you might be doing to her body - 4 months ago
If you go there then he should definately go there. In you age group he should have some idea of what to do. The only time I don't is if the aroma is really bad, say like if you didn't have time to freshen up a bit. I expect some aroma because I got your juices flowing. - 4 months ago
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Yeah, that's cool - I just never thought about talking as being foreplay, but I know you're right! Very cool! - 4 months ago
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