i am really worried about having sex with my boyfriend because of this, he keeps tryin to put his hands down there but I pull away I dont want him 2 feel rejected but is it gross?
If your inner labia are big, you'd certainly turn me on. Unless your ashamed of it! Big labia are beautiful: alluring,exciting,lovely to touch and heavenly for oral sex!
I have never had a conversation with any of my friends that have turned into horror stories about a big inner labia. (Yes I know what your talking about, I took anatomy in HS) I wouldn't worry about it. If you think it really is a problem, talk to him about it. If he's a guy you want to be with he shouldn't really care but if he does then lose him and move on.
I have long inner labia that protrude beyond my labia majora. I have never had a guy say anything negative about my vulva. I used to be self-conscious about them because I didn't see many other girls that looked like me, but I got over it. From my experience guys could care less one way or the other they are just happy to have the privilege to be between your legs in the first place. Some guys have said they like performing oral sex on girls with larger labia more because there is more to pleasure and play with.