He wants to have sex?

If your worried about it than DON'T DO IT. For the obvious reasons & how will you be able to enjoy yourself with this on your mind? How about a trip to the Dr. for an IUD or pill along with a condom if your that worried.
I AM GLAD TO SEE THAT YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES!

If you wear a condom you shouldn't get pregnant but there's always that 1% that break or don't fit. Or some idiot turns it inside out lol. If you want to have sex, and you think your ready then I would say go for it. Some people want to wait till there married to have sex.There's 2 main reason I disagree with that choice, #1- You don't get any practice for when you find THE ONE. and #2- any time you have sex for the first time ITS AWKWARD, I know its not rocket science but its just one of those things that you got to practice to get good at.

Hope this helps :)

In the end, you have to do what's in the best interest for you.
He has no choice but to understand. He will probably leave you, but if he does or threatens, then he never loved you from the beginning.

It is always about comfort, once you are comfortable, you be ready.
So if you really want to do this, you'll have to find a comfort in it.

All you can do in his case is to stress how much of a big deal it is to you.
He needs to know why you are so scared of the consequences.
Once he understands, everything will be alright, I Promise.
Good Luck


Sincerely,
A Loving Black Man

Do you know what your monthly cycle is?

If so, read up on the cycle as there are "safe" days and days when it isn't so safe. If memory serves me correctly the magic number is 14 from the first day of the period which is the day when you are at your peak for conception.

So if you want to be safe then make sure you have sex, with a condom, a week before or a week after your period but don't quote me on it.

if you are worried about getting pregnant that you should definitely go on some type of birth control. The pill, the shot, the ring. Plus you should still use condoms. There are some many different types of STDs out there. You should always protect yourself. And that's great that you are thinking about the consequences.

Also, if your boyfriend loves you then he will understand and will be okay with waiting until you go on birth control. And if he doesn't understand and he wants to leave you because of this then he is not worth your time.

Condoms are pretty good, the pill is better. And condoms plus the pill make it nearly impossible to get pregnant.

Condoms work fine as a means of contraception and I rely on them mostly as a means of contraception. If, of course, you are very worried about getting pregnant then you could go on the pill too BUT condoms are good enough alone else they wouldn't be sold.

It seems to me that it all comes down to a matter of if you are ready to have sex with him. Make sure you're ready, be careful and take it slow.

If you're that worried about it, you shouldn't do it.
You shouldn't do anything you don't want to do in a relationship, actually.
If he really cares about you he'll respect your decision to refrain.

Or maybe you'd be interested in taking birth control.
See Planned Parenthood:)

tell him you're scared that you will get pregnant. if he truly likes you for who you are, he will accept that and won't push you. if he gets angry and breaks up, it may be heartbreaking but it's probably best for you because that means all he wanted is sex and you shouldn't want a guy that only wants you for that. you should want a guy that respects you and your choices and loves you for who you are